Anatomy and biomechanics
In this position, the receptive partner is positioned straddling the penetrating partner, but in an inverted position, resting on their hands on the floor or bed. The penetrating partner can be seated or lying down, with legs extended or bent. Penetration can be vaginal or anal, depending on the couple's preferences.
Why this position works
This position is popular because it allows for deep penetration and complete control over the rhythm and intensity of the sexual act. Additionally, the inverted position can increase stimulation of the G spot or A spot, depending on the couple's sexual orientation.
The Spider: sexual position with deep penetration
The Spider position is a sexual position where the receptive partner is positioned above the penetrating partner, but in an inverted position, similar to a spider. This position allows for deep penetration and complete control over the rhythm and intensity of the sexual act.
Also known as: Spider / Inverted Cavalier / Reverse Rider
Variations of this position
Variant: The Spider with hand support
In this variant, the receptive person supports themselves on their hands instead of their knees, allowing for greater flexibility and movement.
- The receptive person straddles the penetrating person but in a reversed position.
- The receptive person supports themselves on their hands instead of their knees, keeping their legs extended or bent as they prefer.
- The penetrating person can adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration according to the couple's preferences.
Variant: The Spider with elbow support
In this variant, the receptive person supports themselves on their elbows instead of their hands, allowing for greater stability and control.
- The receptive person straddles the penetrating person, but in a reversed position.
- The receptive person supports themselves on their elbows, keeping their legs extended or bent according to their comfort.
- The penetrating person can adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration according to the couple's preferences.
Variant: The Spider with knee support
In this variant, the receptive person supports themselves on their knees instead of their hands, allowing for greater stability and control.
- The receptive person straddles the penetrating person but in an inverted position.
- The receptive person supports themselves on their knees, keeping their legs extended or bent according to their comfort.
- The penetrating person can adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration according to the couple's preferences.
✓ Tips
- Ensure that the receptive partner has a good support for their hands and knees to avoid injuries.
- Use cushions or pillows to adjust the height and maintain comfort.
- Communicate constantly to adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Vaginal sex/Anal sex
- Active anatomy
- Penis / Vagina
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagina / Rectum
- Main stimulation
- G spot / A spot
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, but it is important that both partners are comfortable and have good communication to adjust the position and rhythm.
Can I use external stimulation in this position?
Yes, you can use external stimulation to increase the stimulation, but ensure that both partners are comfortable and safe.
How can I increase the intensity of the stimulation in this position?
You can adjust the depth of penetration and the rhythm, as well as use external or manual stimulation techniques.
Safety and evidence
Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.
G-spot: what the evidence says
“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.
A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence
The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.
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