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Asian Cowgirl: acrobatic reverse woman-on-top position

The Asian Cowgirl is an acrobatic woman-on-top position. He lies on his back with his knees bent and feet flat; she straddles his pelvis facing away from him, towards his knees, and bends her torso far forward with her back arched. One of her feet is planted on the floor beside his hips, and the other leg stretches back over his body until the foot touches the floor beyond his head. He sets most of the rhythm from below. Penetration can be vaginal or anal and is usually of medium depth. It requires strength, flexibility and good balance.

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Illustration of Asian Cowgirl: Demanding reverse woman-on-top position: she bends far forward over him, one foot beside his hips and the other leg stretched back past his head.
Anatomy and biomechanics

He lies on his back on a firm surface, knees bent and feet flat, so he can push his pelvis upwards. She places her pelvis over his, facing his knees, and lowers herself onto the penis. She then leans her torso far forward, arching her back, plants one foot on the floor next to his hips with the knee bent, and stretches the other leg back over his torso until the foot rests on the floor beyond his head. Her weight is spread between the planted foot, the stretched leg and her contact with him, and he can steady her with a hand on her torso. Because her legs are busy keeping her balanced, he does most of the moving, with short thrusts from below. Penetration is vaginal or anal and of medium depth. There is no eye contact or kissing, and body contact is limited to the pelvis, thighs and his hand. The effort falls on her hips, thighs and knees, and on his lower back.

Why this position works

Its appeal is mainly the challenge: it is an unusual, spectacular position for agile couples who like to experiment. She can focus on sensation while he sets the pace, and leaning so far forward changes the angle of penetration compared with an ordinary reverse cowgirl; some people find it presses on areas they enjoy. Sensations vary from person to person, and many couples hold it only briefly before moving into a simpler position.

Variations of this position

Variation 1: with both feet planted

Instead of stretching one leg back, she squats with both feet flat on the floor on either side of his hips.

With both feet planted the stretch disappears and her base is much more stable; she can also rise and lower herself using her legs.

  1. He lies on his back with his knees bent and feet flat.
  2. She straddles his pelvis facing his knees and lowers herself onto the penis.
  3. She keeps both feet flat on the floor beside his hips and leans her torso forward.
  4. She moves up and down with her legs, or lets him thrust gently from below.

Variation 2: with her hands on his knees

She rests her hands on his bent knees to take part of her weight while keeping one leg stretched back.

Her hands add a support point in front of her, so balance is easier and less load falls on her planted leg.

  1. Get into the basic position, with her facing his knees.
  2. She leans forward and rests both hands on his bent knees.
  3. She plants one foot beside his hips and stretches the other leg back only as far as is comfortable.
  4. He moves gently from below while she keeps her arms steady.

Variation 3: with a cushion under his hips

A firm cushion under his hips raises his pelvis, so she does not have to bend as far.

Raising his pelvis brings it closer to her, reduces how far she has to lean forward and slightly changes the angle of penetration.

  1. He lies on his back with a firm cushion under his hips and his feet flat.
  2. She straddles him facing his knees and lowers herself onto the penis.
  3. She leans forward, plants one foot and stretches the other leg back.
  4. He moves with short pushes; the cushion limits how high he can lift his hips.

✓ Tips

  • Get into position step by step: first sit on him facing his knees, then lean forward, and only then stretch one leg back.
  • Use a firm, non-slip surface and stop if she feels unstable; he can steady her with a hand on her torso or hips.
  • He should thrust gently and she should never drop her weight suddenly: if the penis slips out at this angle, it can bend.
  • Warm up the hips and the backs of the thighs, and stop if there is pain in the groin, knees or lower back.
  • Use lubricant and a condom; for anal sex use plenty of lubricant, go slowly, and never switch from anus to vagina without changing the condom.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal or anal penetration, receiving partner on top facing away and leaning forward
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina / Anus
Main stimulation
Vaginal or anal penetration from behind, with her on top
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is the Asian Cowgirl the same as the reverse cowgirl?

No. In the reverse cowgirl she sits or kneels upright on him, facing away. In the Asian Cowgirl, as described here, she bends far forward and stretches one leg back over his body, which makes it much more demanding.

Is it suitable for beginners?

Not really. It requires flexibility, leg strength and balance. Beginners can start with a simple reverse cowgirl or with the variation with both feet planted.

Who controls the movement?

Mainly the partner lying down, who pushes up from the hips with his feet on the floor. She can add small movements, but her legs are mostly busy keeping her balanced.

Can it be done with anal penetration?

Yes, with plenty of lubricant, prior relaxation, a condom and very gentle movements. It is best to have experience of anal sex in simpler positions first.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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