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Illustration of The Queen of Shadows
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the woman sits astride her partner, facing away from them, allowing for deep penetration. The partner can adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to maintain a comfortable and stable position.

Why this position works

This position allows for deep penetration and complete control over the rhythm and intensity of the act, which can be very stimulating for both parties. Additionally, the proximity and bodily contact can increase intimacy and emotional connection.

Physical effort: Medium Posterior

The Queen of Shadows: Deep Sexual Position

The Queen of Shadows is a sexual position where the woman straddles her partner, allowing for deep penetration and complete control over the rhythm and intensity of the act. It's ideal for those seeking an intimate and stimulating experience.

Also known as: Khaleesi/The Rider/The Dominant

Deep Intimacy Medium Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Leaning Variant

The woman leans forward, changing the angle of penetration and increasing G-spot stimulation.

  1. The woman sits astride her partner, facing away from her.
  2. She leans forward, supporting her hands on her partner's legs or on the mattress.
  3. She adjusts the angle of penetration to increase G-spot stimulation.

Twisted Variant

The woman slightly twists her body to one side, allowing for more lateral penetration and different stimulation.

  1. The woman sits astride her partner, facing away from her.
  2. She slightly twists her body to one side, maintaining intimate contact.
  3. She adjusts the position to allow for more lateral penetration and different stimulation.

Elevated Variant

The woman elevates her hips, increasing the depth of penetration and stimulation of the G-spot.

  1. The woman sits astride her partner, facing away from her.
  2. She elevates her hips, supporting herself on her hands or elbows.
  3. She adjusts the height to increase the depth of penetration and stimulation of the G-spot.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use pillows or cushions to maintain a comfortable and stable position.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the depth and rhythm according to your preferences.
  • Avoid abrupt movements that may cause discomfort or pain.
  • Maintain good communication to ensure that both of you are enjoying the experience.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
G-Spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, as long as the supports are adjusted and constant communication is maintained to ensure the comfort of both parties.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure in this position?

Adjust the depth of penetration and experiment with different rhythms and movements to find what is most pleasurable for you.

What can I do if I feel discomfort in my lower back?

Use pillows or cushions to support your back and hips, and make sure the position is comfortable before starting.

Safety and evidence 1 topic · 2 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

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