Reverse Cowgirl: Complete Guide to the Deep Sexual Position
The Reverse Cowgirl position is a variant of the traditional cowgirl position, where the receptive partner sits astride the penetrating partner but facing away from them. This position allows for deep penetration and complete control of the rhythm and intensity by the receptive partner.
Also known as: Backwards Cowgirl / Reverse Cowgirl / Reverse Mount
Anatomy and biomechanics
In this position, the receptive partner sits astride the penetrating partner, facing away from them. The penetrating partner can be seated or lying down, while the receptive partner handles the rocking movements. Penetration is deep and can be adjusted according to the inclination of the receptive partner's body.
Why this position works
This position is appreciated for the deep penetration it allows, as well as the control the receptive partner has over the rhythm and intensity of the sexual act. Additionally, the view the penetrating partner has of their partner's back and glutes can be very stimulating.
Variations of this position
Reverse Cowgirl Lying Down: Relaxed Variant
The penetrating person lies on their back, while the receptive person sits astride them, facing away.
- The penetrating person lies on their back on the bed.
- The receptive person sits astride the penetrating person, facing away, and slowly lowers themselves until penetration is achieved.
- The receptive person controls the rhythm and depth of the movement, while the penetrating person can assist by holding their hips.
Reverse Cowgirl Sitting: Active Variant
Both are sitting, with the receptive person straddling the penetrating person, facing away from them.
- The penetrating person sits on a chair or the edge of the bed.
- The receptive person straddles the penetrating person, facing away from them, and slowly lowers themselves until penetration is achieved.
- The receptive person controls the rhythm and depth of the movement, while the penetrating person can assist by holding their hips.
Reverse Cowgirl Incline: Deep Variant
The receptive person leans forward to increase the depth of penetration.
- The penetrating person sits on a chair or the edge of the bed.
- The receptive person sits astride the penetrating person, facing away, and leans forward to increase the depth of penetration.
- The receptive person controls the rhythm and depth of movement, while the penetrating person can assist by holding their hips and adjusting the angle.
✓ Tips
- Make sure both are comfortable and adequately supported to avoid injuries.
- Communicate constantly to adjust the depth and rhythm according to both preferences.
- Avoid sudden movements that may cause discomfort or pain.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Vaginal sex
- Active anatomy
- Penis
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagina
- Main stimulation
- G-spot
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, as long as both feel comfortable and communicate well during the act.
How can I increase comfort in this position?
Use pillows or cushions to support the back and hips, and adjust the height as needed.
What can I do to prevent the receptive partner from getting tired?
The penetrating partner can help by holding their partner by the waist or thighs, and alternating the movements.
Safety and evidence
Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.
G-spot: what the evidence says
“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.
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