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Illustration of Intimate Link
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies are intertwined and seated, with her on top. Penetration is usually deep, and the focus of stimulation is neutral. Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep both of you comfortable and stable.

Why this position works

This position allows for an intimate and deep connection, facilitating control of the rhythm and intensity. The proximity of the bodies promotes skin-to-skin contact and communication during sexual intercourse.

Physical effort: Medium Control

Intimate Link: Complete Guide to the Intimate and Deep Sexual Position

The Intimate Link is a sexual position where the bodies intertwine deeply and closely, allowing for an intimate connection and deep penetration. Both bodies are seated, with her on top, which facilitates control of the intensity and rhythm.

Also known as: Anna / Knot Position / Seated Union

Variations of this position

Variant with Legs Open

She opens her legs wider, allowing for deeper and more varied penetration.

  1. Sit with your back against the bed or the floor, with your legs extended.
  2. She sits on top of you, opening her legs wider than in the standard position.
  3. Adjust the depth of penetration by moving your hips and using your arms for support.

Leg Crossed Variant

She crosses her legs behind your back, increasing friction and the intensity of penetration.

  1. Sit with your back against the bed or the floor, with your legs extended.
  2. She sits on top of you, crossing her legs behind your back.
  3. Move your hips in circles to increase friction and the intensity of penetration.

Variant with Knee Support

She supports her knees on the floor or the bed, allowing greater control of the rhythm and depth.

  1. Sit with your back against the bed or the floor, with your legs extended.
  2. She kneels in front of you and sits on your penis, supporting her knees on the floor or the bed.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and depth by moving your hips and using your arms for support.

✓ Tips

  • Use pillows or cushions to adjust the height and improve comfort.
  • Maintain constant communication with your partner to adjust the rhythm and intensity.
  • Avoid forcing joints; make sure both of you are comfortable and relaxed.
  • Experiment with different angles of penetration to find the most pleasurable stimulation point.

Key facts

Interaction type
vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep penetration
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it is a suitable position for beginners due to its simplicity and the ease of controlling the rhythm and depth of penetration.

How can I increase the intensity of stimulation?

You can increase the intensity by moving the hips in circles or adjusting the angle of penetration to stimulate different areas of the vagina.

What should I do if I feel discomfort in the lower back?

Make sure to use pillows or cushions to support the back and adjust the height. You can also change the position of the legs to distribute the weight better.

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