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Illustration of The Lightning Bolt
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies are lying on their sides. The focus of stimulation is neutral, allowing adjustments in the depth of penetration. Comfort and stability are key, so it is recommended to use pillows or the edge of the bed as support.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its comfort and the possibility of maintaining close and intimate contact. It's ideal for those seeking a relaxed and unhurried sexual experience.

Physical effort: Low Lateral

The Lightning Bolt: Side Sexual Position

The Lightning Bolt is a sexual position performed lying on your side, allowing for shallow and comfortable penetration. It's ideal for quiet and relaxing moments of intimacy.

Also known as: Flash / The Glow / The Ray

Deep Intimacy Relaxation and Surrender Easy Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Variation with deeper penetration

Adjust the position to allow for deeper penetration while maintaining comfort.

  1. Lie on your side with your legs slightly bent.
  2. Your partner positions themselves behind you, also on their side, and adjusts their position for deeper penetration.
  3. Use pillows to elevate the hips and improve the angle of penetration.

Variant with reversed roles

The penetrating person faces the other, allowing eye contact and greater intimacy.

  1. Lie on your side with your legs slightly apart.
  2. Your partner faces you, also lying on their side, and adjusts for penetration.
  3. Maintain eye contact and adjust movements to maximize mutual pleasure.

Variant with hip elevation

A pillow or cushion is used to elevate the hip, allowing for deeper penetration and different angles.

  1. Lie on your side with a pillow under your hip.
  2. Your partner positions themselves behind you, also on their side, and adjusts their position for penetration.
  3. Adjust the height of the pillow according to comfort and the desired angle.

✓ Tips
  • Use pillows to maintain alignment and comfort.
  • Adjust the depth of penetration according to your preferences.
  • Maintain constant communication to ensure mutual pleasure.
  • Avoid sudden movements that may cause discomfort.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Shallow penetration
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it's an ideal position for beginners due to its comfort and ease of adjustment.

Can it be performed on different surfaces?

Yes, it can be performed on the bed, on the floor with a blanket, or even on a soft surface like a sofa.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure?

By adjusting the depth of penetration and using soft circular or back-and-forth movements.

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