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Illustration of Deep Longing
Anatomy and biomechanics

In Deep Longing, both bodies are positioned face to face, lying on their sides. The penetrating person can adjust the depth of penetration through pelvic movements, while the receiving person can control the angle and intensity of contact.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to create an intimate and deep connection between partners. The stimulation of the deep spot and the possibility of maintaining constant visual and physical contact make it very pleasurable.

Physical effort: Low Lateral

Deep Longing: Complete Guide to the Intimate Sexual Position

Deep Longing is a sexual position that combines intimacy and deep stimulation, ideal for moments of emotional and physical connection. This position allows for controlled penetration and intense stimulation in deep areas.

Also known as: Thirst / Deep Embrace / Lateral Union

Deep Intimacy Relaxation and Surrender Easy Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

High Aspiration: Greater Control and Depth

In this variant, the receiving person slightly elevates one leg to allow for deeper and more controlled penetration.

  1. The receiving person lies on their side with one leg slightly elevated and resting on a pillow.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, also on their side, and adjusts to align their bodies.
  3. They begin slow, controlled pelvic movements, adjusting the depth for comfort.

Crossed Longing: Crossed Stimulation

In this variant, both people cross their legs to allow for more intense penetration and greater physical connection.

  1. Both people lie on their sides, face to face, and cross their legs with each other.
  2. The penetrating person adjusts to align their hips with those of the receptive person.
  3. They begin synchronized pelvic movements, taking advantage of the physical connection to increase intensity.

Suspended Longing: Suspension and Depth

In this variation, the receiving partner lifts one leg and rests it on the penetrating partner's shoulder to allow for deeper, suspended penetration.

  1. The receiving partner lies on their side and lifts one leg, resting it on the penetrating partner's shoulder.
  2. The penetrating partner adjusts to align their hips with the receiving partner's, maintaining balance.
  3. They begin slow, controlled pelvic movements, using the suspension to increase depth and intensity.

✓ Tips
  • Use pillows or cushions to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Adjust the height of the hips to ensure comfortable and deep penetration.
  • Avoid sudden movements that may cause discomfort in the lower back or joints.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it is a suitable position for beginners due to its intimate and controlled nature. However, it is important to adjust the position to ensure comfort.

How can I increase the intensity of the stimulation?

You can increase the intensity by adjusting the angle of penetration and using deeper and more controlled pelvic movements.

Is it possible to use this position for anal stimulation?

Yes, although it requires additional adjustments and precautions to ensure the comfort and safety of both people.

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