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Physical effort: High Control

Scorching Knot: reverse cowgirl squat with intertwined legs

The Scorching Knot is a demanding variation of the reverse cowgirl. He lies on his back; she squats on his pelvis facing away from him, towards his feet, with her feet flat on the bed. He raises one knee in front of her and crosses his other leg over her thighs, so their legs end up intertwined. She sets the pace and depth, and penetration tends to be deep. There is no eye contact, but there is a strong feeling of being locked together at the hips.

Also known as: Knot · Squatting reverse cowgirl

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Illustration of Scorching Knot: A reverse cowgirl in a squat: she crouches on his pelvis facing his feet while he lies on his back with one leg crossed over her thighs, the 'knot' that gives t
Anatomy and biomechanics

He lies on his back with his head slightly raised on a pillow. One knee is bent and raised in front of her, with that foot on the mattress; his other leg lifts and crosses over her thighs. She squats on his pelvis facing his feet, torso upright, feet flat and wide apart, knees deeply bent. One of her hands holds his crossed-over leg for balance, and his hands rest on her hips to guide and steady her. Her squat does the work: she rises and lowers, or rocks her pelvis, controlling rhythm and depth. Her weight falls partly on his pelvis, and her knees and thighs carry the effort of the squat. The crossed leg limits how far she can rise, which keeps the movement short and the penetration deep.

Why this position works

She has full control: she chooses the depth, the speed and the type of movement, from bouncing to slow circles. Some people find the deep angle of a reverse squat very intense, and the intertwined legs add a sense of closeness despite the lack of eye contact. He gets a free view and can guide her hips with his hands. Sensations vary from person to person: for some the depth feels great, for others it is too much, and that is adjusted by squatting less low.

Variations of this position

Variation 1: kneeling instead of squatting

She rests her knees on the mattress on either side of his hips instead of squatting, and he keeps his leg crossed over her thigh. Much less tiring for the legs.

Her shins and knees take her weight instead of her feet, so the thighs no longer hold a squat. Her pelvis sits lower and steadier, the movement becomes a forward-and-back rocking, and penetration stays deep but easier to control.

  1. He lies on his back with one knee raised, as in the base position.
  2. She kneels astride his pelvis facing his feet, knees on the mattress on either side of his hips.
  3. She lowers herself slowly until she finds a comfortable depth.
  4. He crosses his free leg over one of her thighs, without pressing.
  5. She rocks her hips forward and back, holding his raised knee if she needs support.

Variation 2: leaning forward onto his knee

Still squatting, she tilts her torso forward and rests both hands on his raised knee or shin. More stable, and it changes the angle of penetration.

Leaning forward shifts part of her weight onto her hands and his raised leg, which unloads the thighs and improves balance. Her pelvis tilts back, so penetration becomes somewhat shallower and the movement turns into short up-and-down strokes.

  1. Start from the base position, with her squatting facing his feet and his leg crossed over her thighs.
  2. He keeps his raised knee firm so it can act as a support.
  3. She leans her torso forward and places both hands on his knee or shin.
  4. She moves with short up-and-down strokes, using her hands to control the descent.

Variation 3: leaning back with hands on the bed

She tilts her torso slightly back and rests her hands on the mattress beside his torso. The angle changes and his hands are free to caress her.

With her torso leaning back, her pelvis tilts forward and the penis presses more towards the front wall of the vagina, which some people find pleasant. Her hands take some of the weight off her legs, and his hands, now free from her hips, can reach her belly, breasts or clitoris. The movement becomes a gentle rocking.

  1. Start from the base position, squatting and with the legs intertwined.
  2. She leans back slowly and places her hands on the mattress on either side of his torso.
  3. She keeps her feet planted and rocks her pelvis gently, without large up-and-down movements.
  4. He can bring a hand round to caress her clitoris or her belly.
  5. If her wrists or shoulders tire, she returns to an upright torso.

✓ Tips

  • Get into position before crossing the legs: first she squats and finds a comfortable depth, then he lifts his leg over her thighs.
  • She should rise and lower in a controlled way and never let the penis slip out and land on it with her weight: if it bends, it can be injured. Stop at once if there is a crack, sharp pain or sudden loss of erection.
  • The squat is tiring for the knees and thighs: alternate with rocking or resting on her knees (variation 1), and stop if the knees hurt.
  • Use lubricant if needed and a condom to protect against STIs.
  • Go slowly at first: deep penetration can be uncomfortable, and squatting less low makes it shallower.
  • Don't hold the knot by force: if a leg goes numb or cramps, untangle and change position.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal penetration with the receiving partner on top, squatting and facing away
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep vaginal penetration with the receiving partner on top, facing away, setting the pace
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is it a good position for beginners?

Not really: the sustained squat requires strength in the legs and some balance. It's best to try the reverse cowgirl first or start with the kneeling variation.

Is there any risk for him?

Yes, as in any position with the receiving partner on top: if the penis slips out and she comes down on it, it can bend. Moving in a controlled way and keeping the movement short reduce the risk.

Does it stimulate the G-spot?

Some people feel pressure on the front wall of the vagina in reverse positions, especially when she leans back slightly (variation 3). It depends on each body, and there is no guarantee.

What if the squat is too tiring?

Rest on the knees instead of the feet (variation 1) or lean forward with the hands on his raised knee (variation 2); both lighten the load on the legs.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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