Anatomy and biomechanics
In this position, the receptive person sits on top of the penetrating person with their legs on either side. The penetrating person can be seated or lying down, depending on the variation. The penetration is deep and can be adjusted by the height and supports.
Why this position works
This position allows for deep penetration and significant control over the rhythm and intensity. Additionally, the receptive person can easily stimulate their clitoris with their fingers or through movement.
The Monkey: Deep and Stimulating Sexual Position
The Monkey is a sexual position where the receptive person straddles the penetrating person, facing away from them. It's ideal for deep penetration and allows significant control over the rhythm and intensity.
Also known as: Ape/The Reverse Cowgirl/The Horse
Variations of this position
Lying Down Variant
The penetrating person lies on their back, and the receptive person sits on top of them.
- The penetrating person lies on their back on the bed.
- The receptive person sits astride the penetrating person, facing away from them.
- Adjust the position for comfortable and deep penetration, using pillows if necessary.
Seated Variation
Both are seated, with the receptive person straddling the penetrating person.
- The penetrating person sits on a chair or the edge of the bed.
- The receptive person sits astride the penetrating person, facing away from them.
- Adjust the height and position for comfortable and deep penetration.
Leaning Variant
The receptive person leans forward to change the angle of penetration.
- The penetrating person sits on a chair or the edge of the bed.
- The receptive person sits astride the penetrating person, facing away from them.
- Lean forward to change the angle of penetration and increase stimulation.
✓ Tips
- Make sure to use lube for more comfortable penetration.
- Adjust the height with pillows or cushions to maintain a comfortable position.
- Communicate constantly to adjust the rhythm and depth according to both partners' pleasure.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Deep penetration
- Active anatomy
- Pénis
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagin / Anus
- Main stimulation
- Deep penetration
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, as long as supports are adjusted and communication is maintained to find a comfortable position.
Can this position be performed on different surfaces?
Yes, it can be performed on the bed, on the floor, or on a chair, depending on the variation and both partners' comfort.
How can I increase stimulation in this position?
You can use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris or ask your partner to adjust the rhythm and depth for greater pleasure.
Safety and evidence
Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.
G-spot: what the evidence says
“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.
A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence
The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.
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