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Physical effort: Medium Control

The Wild Horse: reverse cowgirl leaning forward

The Wild Horse is a variation of the reverse cowgirl. The penetrating partner lies on his back with his head and shoulders slightly raised and his legs stretched out and apart. The receiving partner kneels astride his hips, facing his feet, and leans her torso forward, resting her hands on his shins. She sets the rhythm and the depth, which is usually moderate, while he holds her buttocks. It asks for some effort from her knees and wrists, and there is no eye contact.

Also known as: Reverse cowgirl leaning forward

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Illustration of The Wild Horse: A reverse cowgirl leaning forward: he lies on his back, and she kneels astride his hips facing his feet, with her hands on his shins.
Anatomy and biomechanics

The penetrating partner lies on his back on the bed, with a pillow under his head and shoulders so he is slightly propped up, legs straight and spread in a wide V. The receiving partner kneels astride his hips with her back to him, facing his feet, knees on the bed on either side of his pelvis. She leans her torso forward to about 45 degrees and rests her hands, arms straight, on his shins near his ankles. From there she moves her hips up and down or forwards and backwards; leaning forward tilts her pelvis and changes the angle of entry. He rests his hands on her buttocks to accompany the movement without pushing. The load falls on her knees and wrists; he barely has to make any effort.

Why this position works

The receiving partner controls the pace, the angle and how deep she goes, and can change any of them at any moment. Leaning forward changes the angle of penetration, and some people find it reaches different sensations than an upright reverse cowgirl, although this varies from one body to another. The penetrating partner can rest and enjoys a striking view of her back and buttocks. It is not a position for eye contact or kissing: its appeal is the freedom of movement and the playful sense of control.

Variations of this position

Variation 1: Sitting Upright

She straightens her torso instead of leaning forward and rests her hands on his thighs or her own knees.

He still lies on his back and she still kneels facing his feet, but her torso is upright. Her wrists no longer carry weight, her thighs do more of the work, and the angle of entry becomes more vertical. It is the classic reverse cowgirl and a good way to rest the wrists between phases.

  1. Start in the basic position, with him on his back and her kneeling astride facing his feet.
  2. She lifts her hands off his shins and straightens her back.
  3. She rests her hands on his thighs or on her own knees.
  4. She moves up and down with short, controlled strokes.

Variation 2: On Her Feet

Instead of kneeling, she squats with her feet flat on the bed on either side of his hips, still leaning forward with her hands on his shins.

The support moves from her knees to her feet. Her knees rest, but her thighs work much harder, and the up-and-down movement can be wider and more energetic. With a wider movement it is easier for the penis to slip out, so control matters more. It suits people with sensitive knees and strong legs.

  1. Start in the basic position.
  2. She brings one foot and then the other forward until both are flat on the bed beside his hips.
  3. She keeps her hands on his shins to balance.
  4. She moves up and down with her thighs, without lifting so high that the penis slips out.

Variation 3: Chest on His Legs

She leans further forward until her chest rests on his legs and her forearms on the bed or around his calves.

Her torso goes almost horizontal and her weight moves from her wrists to her forearms and his legs. The pelvis tilts more, so the angle of entry changes again, and the movement becomes a short rocking of the hips rather than up and down. He keeps his legs straight and still so she has a stable support.

  1. Start in the basic position.
  2. She slides her hands down towards his ankles and bends her elbows.
  3. She lowers her chest onto his legs and rests her forearms on the bed or around his calves.
  4. She rocks her hips forwards and backwards with short movements.

Variation 4: Leaning Back

Instead of leaning forward, she leans her torso back and supports herself with her hands on the bed beside his chest.

He stays on his back; she keeps kneeling astride facing his feet but tilts her torso backwards, hands on the bed on either side of his torso. The angle of entry changes and her front is open, so he can reach her clitoris and breasts. The movement becomes smaller, and it asks for more effort from her arms and thighs. Avoid leaning back sharply, because it bends the penis downwards.

  1. Start with her sitting upright, kneeling astride facing his feet.
  2. She places her hands on the bed behind her, on either side of his torso.
  3. She leans back slowly, only as far as is comfortable for both.
  4. She moves her hips with small movements while he can caress her clitoris.

Variation 5: Slow Rocking with Clitoral Touch

The same position, but she rocks her pelvis slowly instead of moving up and down and uses one hand to stimulate her clitoris.

The posture does not change: he lies on his back and she kneels facing his feet, leaning forward. She keeps one hand on his shin and takes the other to her clitoris. Instead of lifting, she keeps him inside and rocks her pelvis forwards and backwards or in small circles. The movement is smaller, the penis is less likely to slip out, and the rubbing becomes continuous.

  1. Get into the basic position.
  2. She keeps one hand on his shin and takes the other to her clitoris.
  3. She stops moving up and down and rocks her pelvis slowly forwards and backwards or in circles.
  4. He can keep his hands on her buttocks to follow the rhythm, without pushing.

✓ Tips

  • Move slowly at first and avoid lifting so high that the penis slips out: if she comes down on it at an angle, it can bend and be injured.
  • Put a soft surface under her knees and, if her wrists get tired, let her rest her forearms on his legs or straighten up for a while.
  • A pillow under his head and shoulders makes the position more comfortable for him and lets him watch without straining his neck.
  • Use lubricant if needed; for anal sex, use plenty of it and a condom, and go slowly.
  • Stop if there is pain and change the angle or the depth.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal (or anal) penetration with the receiving partner on top, facing away and leaning forward
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina or anus
Main stimulation
Vaginal (or anal) penetration with the receiving partner on top, facing away and leaning forward
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

How is it different from a regular reverse cowgirl?

In a regular reverse cowgirl she sits more upright. Here she leans forward and rests her hands on his shins, which changes the angle of entry and the support: more load on the wrists, but more stability.

Is it suitable for beginners?

Fairly. The effort is moderate and she controls everything, but she needs some strength in her thighs and knees. Start with slow, short movements.

Is there any risk for the penis?

With the receiving partner on top and moving freely, if the penis slips out and she comes down on it, it can bend. Keep movements controlled and stop if there is a sharp pain.

Can clitoral stimulation be added?

Yes. She can take one hand off his shins to touch her clitoris, or slow down and rock her pelvis so it rubs against him.

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