The Gallows: Complete Guide to the Oral Sex Position
The Gallows is a sexual position that focuses on oral sex, offering an ergonomic and pleasurable experience for both parties. This position is ideal for those seeking an intimate and comfortable connection.
Also known as: Guillotine/The Beheading/The Hangman's Kiss
Anatomy and biomechanics
In The Gallows, the bodies are arranged so that the person performing oral sex is in an elevated position, using pillows or the edge of the bed to maintain comfort and stability. Penetration is not the main focus, but rather oral stimulation.
Why this position works
This position is appreciated for its ergonomics and the ability to control the rhythm and depth of stimulation. Additionally, it allows for a wide variety of movements and angles, which can increase pleasure for both parties.
Variations of this position
Variant: The Leaning Gallows
In this variant, the person performing oral sex leans to one side, allowing a different angle of stimulation.
- The person receiving oral sex lies on their back with legs slightly apart.
- The person performing oral sex kneels beside the bed, leaning to one side.
- Adjust the height with pillows or cushions to maintain comfort and begin oral stimulation.
Variant: The Reverse Cowgirl
In this variant, the person performing oral sex is in an inverted position, with their feet against the wall.
- The person receiving oral sex lies on their back with their legs slightly apart.
- The person performing oral sex is in an inverted position, with their feet against the wall and their head near the penis.
- Adjust the height with pillows or cushions for comfort and begin oral stimulation.
Variant: The Seated Gallows
In this variant, the person performing oral sex sits on a chair or stool, allowing for greater stability and control.
- The person receiving oral sex sits on the edge of the bed or a chair.
- The person performing oral sex sits on a chair or stool facing the other person.
- Adjust the height with cushions or pillows to maintain comfort and begin oral stimulation.
✓ Tips
- Use pillows or cushions to adjust the height and maintain comfort.
- Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or injury.
- Communicate constantly to adjust the intensity and rhythm according to both parties' preferences.
- Maintain a stable position to avoid falls or involuntary movements.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Oral sex on the penis
- Active anatomy
- Mouth / Tongue
- Receptive anatomy
- Penis
- Main stimulation
- Oral stimulation of the penis
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, The Gallows is a suitable position for beginners due to its ergonomics and ease of adjustment. However, it's important to communicate and adjust the position to ensure both parties' comfort.
Can I use lubricant in this position?
It's not necessary for oral sex, but if desired, a water-based lubricant can be applied to the penis to increase comfort and pleasure.
How can I increase pleasure in this position?
Experiment with different angles and rhythms, use your hands to complement oral stimulation, and maintain open communication with your partner to adjust the intensity and rhythm according to both parties' preferences.
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