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Illustration of The Deep Caress
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies are arranged standing. Penetration is usually non-penetrative, focusing on oral stimulation. Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep you both comfortable and stable.

Why this position works

This position is enjoyed for its focus on intimacy and emotional connection. It allows for sensual and pleasurable exploration, without the need for deep penetration.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Deep Caress: Complete Guide to the Intimate Sexual Position

The Deep Caress is a sexual position that focuses on oral stimulation, allowing for an intimate and pleasurable connection between partners. It's ideal for exploring sensuality and mutual pleasure.

Also known as: Throat swab · Deep kisses · Oral stimulation

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Seated Variant: Comfort and Control

In this variant, the person receiving the stimulation sits on a chair or the edge of the bed, allowing for greater control and comfort.

  1. The person receiving the stimulation sits on a chair or the edge of the bed, with legs apart to facilitate access.
  2. The person providing the stimulation kneels or sits in front of the other person, ensuring they are comfortable.
  3. Begin with soft kisses and caresses, then move on to oral stimulation, adjusting the rhythm and intensity according to the partner's reactions.

Lying Variant: Relaxation and Pleasure

In this variant, both people lie down on the bed, allowing for greater relaxation and comfort.

  1. The person receiving the stimulation lies on their back on the bed, with their legs open and relaxed.
  2. The person providing the stimulation lies between their partner's legs, ensuring they are comfortable.
  3. Start with soft kisses and caresses, then move on to oral stimulation, adjusting the pace and intensity according to their partner's reactions.

Foot Variation: Intimacy and Connection

In this variation, both people remain standing, allowing for greater intimacy and connection.

  1. The person receiving the stimulation leans against a wall or piece of furniture, with their legs slightly apart.
  2. The person providing the stimulation kneels in front of their partner, ensuring they are comfortable.
  3. Begin with soft kisses and caresses, then move on to oral stimulation, adjusting the pace and intensity according to the partner's reactions.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure you are in a comfortable position to avoid tension in the neck and back.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the intensity and rhythm of the stimulation.
  • Use lubricants suitable for oral use if necessary for greater comfort.
Interaction type
Oral sex on the penis, oral sex
Active anatomy
Mouth / Tongue
Receptive anatomy
Penile / Vulva
Main stimulation
Oral stimulation
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is previous experience necessary to practice The Deep Caress?

Previous experience is not necessary. Communication and patience are key to enjoying this position.

Can I practice The Deep Caress if I have neck problems?

If you have neck problems, it's important to consult with a healthcare professional before practicing this position. Make sure you are comfortable and do not strain your neck.

What lubricants are suitable for oral use?

Water-based lubricants are generally suitable for oral use. Make sure to choose one that is safe and does not contain irritating ingredients.

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