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Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, bodies are positioned lying down, typically face to face. Penetration can be vaginal or anal, depending on the couple's preference. Stability and comfort are achieved by adjusting height and supports with cushions or the edge of the bed.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its comfort and the ability to maintain constant visual and physical contact, which promotes intimacy and emotional connection.

Physical effort: Medium Adapted

Sweet Pillow: sexual position comfortable and intimate

The Comfort Douillette is a sexual position that prioritizes comfort and intimate connection. Ideal for extended sessions and sensual exploration.

Also known as: Guimauve/Cloud Posture/Butterfly Posture

Sensory Exploration Medium Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Reversed Sweetness Pillow: Variation for greater intimacy

In this variation, the penetrating person lies on their back while the other sits on top.

  1. The receiving person sits astride the penetrating person, who is lying on their back.
  2. Adjust the height with pillows to ensure comfort and the right angle.
  3. Maintain a gentle, steady rhythm, using your hands to stimulate other erogenous zones.

Sweet Side Pillow: Variation for greater comfort

Both bodies are positioned on their sides, facing each other, with the penetrating person behind the receptive one.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side with legs slightly apart.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, also on their side, and adjusts for comfortable penetration.
  3. Use pillows to support the head and hips, and maintain a gentle, steady rhythm.

High Sweetness Pad: Variation for better control

The receiving person lies on an elevated surface, such as a table or chair, while the penetrating person stands.

  1. The receiving person sits on the edge of an elevated surface, with legs open.
  2. The penetrating person stands in front of them, adjusting the height for comfortable penetration.
  3. Maintain eye contact and use your hands to stimulate other erogenous zones while moving.

✓ Tips
  • Use cushions or pillows to adjust height and ensure comfort.
  • Maintain communication during activity to adjust positions and rhythms.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or injuries.
  • Ensure both partners are comfortable and relaxed.
Interaction type
Oral sex on the penis / Oral sex on the vulva
Active anatomy
Penis / Vagina / Fingers
Receptive anatomy
Vagina / Anus / Vagina
Main stimulation
Manual and oral stimulation, gentle and controlled penetration.
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for people with reduced mobility?

Yes, The Comfort Douillette is ideal for people with reduced mobility due to its focus on comfort and stability.

Can this position be performed without penetration?

Absolutely, this position is perfect for oral sex and manual stimulation without the need for penetration.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure in this position?

Experiment with different angles and rhythms, and use external stimulation to add variety and additional stimulation.

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