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Illustration of The Butterfly Dream
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies are arranged from behind, standing. The person who penetrates positions themselves behind the person who receives, adjusting the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to maintain comfort and stability.

Why this position works

This position allows for direct clitoral stimulation and an intimate connection between partners. It's ideal for those seeking a more sensual and less intense approach.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Butterfly Dream: Complete Guide

The Butterfly Dream is a sexual position that combines intimacy and clitoral stimulation. Ideal for couples seeking connection and mutual pleasure.

Also known as: Weird fantasy/The Butterfly Dance/The Whisper Dance

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

More intense variant

Increase the intensity of clitoral stimulation with more pronounced movements.

  1. The receiving person stands, placing their hands on a stable surface.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. Move the hips in circles to increase clitoral stimulation.

Less intense variant

Reduce the intensity of clitoral stimulation with softer movements.

  1. The receiving person stands, placing their hands on a stable surface.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. Move the hips gently forward and back for a more subtle stimulation.

Variant with additional support

Adds additional support for greater comfort and stability.

  1. The receiving person stands, placing their hands on a stable surface and their legs slightly apart.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind, adjusting the height with pillows and placing a hand on the hip of the receiving person for greater stability.
  3. Move the hips in smooth, rhythmic movements for constant stimulation.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use pillows or supports to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the position and the intensity of the stimulation.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or injury.
Interaction type
Oral sex, unconventional penetration
Active anatomy
Vulva
Receptive anatomy
Vulva
Main stimulation
Clitoral
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is it necessary to use lubricant in this position?

Yes, using lubricant can improve comfort and stimulation, especially if there is friction.

Can this position be performed on different surfaces?

Yes, as long as the stability and comfort of both people are ensured.

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it is a relatively simple position and can be a good option for couples who are starting to explore more intimate positions.

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