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Illustration of The Kiss of the Waves
Anatomy and biomechanics

Both people stand facing each other, with legs slightly apart to maintain balance. One person leans slightly forward to access the other's vulva, while the other leans back to allow oral penetration.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to provide intense and direct clitoral stimulation, as well as the intimate connection established between partners.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Kiss of the Waves: Complete Guide to the Clitoral Position

The Kiss of the Waves is a sexual position that combines clitoral stimulation with oral sex, allowing both people to enjoy an intimate and pleasurable connection.

Also known as: Pisces / The Dance of the Tides / The Clitoral Encounter

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Variant with additional manual stimulation

One of the people uses both hands to stimulate the vulva and clitoris while performing oral sex.

  1. Stand in front of your partner with your legs slightly apart.
  2. Lean forward and use one hand to hold yourself while the other stimulates the vulva and clitoris.
  3. Adjust the pressure and rhythm of the manual stimulation according to your partner's response.

Mutual oral penetration variant

Both people lean forward to perform mutual oral sex while standing.

  1. Stand facing each other, with your legs slightly apart.
  2. Lean forward until your mouths reach the other person's genital area.
  3. Use your hands to hold and guide your partner, ensuring a comfortable and pleasurable oral penetration.

Variant with simultaneous manual and oral stimulation

One person performs oral sex while the other uses their fingers to stimulate the clitoris and vagina.

  1. Stand in front of your partner with your legs slightly apart.
  2. Lean forward and start performing oral sex on your partner's vulva.
  3. Use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris and vagina, adjusting the pressure and rhythm according to your partner's response.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use pillows or supports to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the intensity and rhythm of the stimulation.
  • Avoid sudden movements that may cause imbalance or discomfort.
Interaction type
Oral sex / Manual stimulation
Active anatomy
Vulva / Fingers
Receptive anatomy
Vulva / Penis
Main stimulation
Clitoral
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is it necessary to stand to perform this position?

Not necessarily. You can adapt the position using an edge of a bed or an elevated surface for greater comfort.

How can I increase the intensity of the stimulation?

Use circular movements with the tongue and fingers, and adjust the pressure according to your partner's response.

Is this position suitable for people with mobility issues?

Yes, as long as appropriate supports are used to maintain comfort and stability.

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