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Illustration of The Whispering
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, both bodies are arranged sitting, standing, or with supports, allowing a wide variety of movements and angles. The main stimulation is clitoral, although it can also be adapted for other forms of mutual pleasure.

Why this position works

This position is liked for its ability to create an intimate and deep connection between couples. The proximity and the possibility of maintaining eye contact and verbal communication during sexual intercourse make it especially pleasurable and emotionally satisfying.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Whispering: Sexual Position of Intimacy and Connection

The Whispering is a sexual position that combines intimacy and connection, ideal for couples seeking a closer and more sensory experience. This position allows for mutual stimulation and intimate communication, making it perfect for moments of complicity.

Also known as: Zombie · The 69 Seated · The Deep Kiss

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Lying Down Variant for Greater Comfort

Both bodies lie on their sides, facilitating greater comfort and stability.

  1. Lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads near each other's intimate areas.
  2. Adjust the position so that both are comfortable and can easily reach the stimulation areas.
  3. Begin mutual stimulation with soft and coordinated movements, maintaining eye contact and verbal communication.

Elevated Variant for Greater Intensity

One of the bodies is slightly elevated, allowing for greater depth and angle of stimulation.

  1. One of the partners sits on an elevated surface, such as a bed or sofa, with legs spread apart.
  2. The other partner stands or kneels between the first partner's legs, adjusting the height for comfortable stimulation.
  3. Begin mutual stimulation with controlled movements, adjusting the intensity according to both partners' preferences.

Inverted Variant for Fun and Surprise

Bodies are positioned in opposite directions, allowing stimulation from different angles.

  1. One partner sits on a stable surface with legs spread apart.
  2. The other partner positions themselves facing away, sliding down until their heads are near the other's intimate areas.
  3. Begin mutual stimulation with soft, coordinated movements, exploring different angles and rhythms.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to adjust the height and supports to maintain a comfortable and stable position.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the intensity and rhythm according to both partners' preferences.
  • Use lubricant to facilitate stimulation and avoid chafing.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or injury.
Interaction type
Oral sex position and mutual stimulation
Active anatomy
Vulva / Penis / Fingers
Receptive anatomy
Vulva / Penis / Anus
Main stimulation
Clitoral and oral
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is previous experience necessary to practice The Whispering?

Previous experience is not necessary. This position is accessible to beginners and can be adapted to different levels of comfort and skill.

Can The Whispering be practiced without penetration?

Yes, this position is ideal for mutual stimulation without penetration, either through oral sex or manual stimulation.

How can I make this position more comfortable?

Use pillows or cushions to adjust the height and angles according to your needs. Make sure both partners are comfortable and stable before starting.

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