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Illustration of Whisper
Anatomy and biomechanics

In the Whisper position, bodies are positioned laterally, facing each other. The penetrating partner can adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration, while the receiving partner can control the angle and intensity of contact.

Why this position works

This position promotes closeness and skin-to-skin contact, which can increase feelings of intimacy and emotional connection. Additionally, it allows for gentle and controlled penetration, making it ideal for relaxation and mutual pleasure.

Physical effort: Medium Adapted

Whisper: sexual position intimate and relaxed

The Whisper position is ideal for moments of intimacy and emotional connection. It allows for gentle and controlled penetration, as well as the possibility to explore other forms of mutual pleasure.

Also known as: Whisper/L'Embrace/The Spoon

Sensory Exploration Medium Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Deep Whisper: More intense penetration

In this variant, the penetrating person positions themselves slightly behind the receiving person, allowing for deeper penetration.

  1. The receiving person lies on their side with legs slightly bent.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, embracing their partner and adjusting the position for deeper penetration.
  3. Maintain a slow, steady rhythm, ensuring both are comfortable and enjoying skin-to-skin contact.

Inverted Whisper: Role Reversal

In this variant, the receiving person is on top, allowing greater control over the rhythm and depth of penetration.

  1. The penetrating person lies on their side with legs slightly bent.
  2. The receiving person is on top, on their side, and adjusts for comfortable, controlled penetration.
  3. Maintain a slow, steady rhythm, ensuring both of you are comfortable and enjoying skin-to-skin contact.

Oral Whisper: Mutual Pleasure

In this variant, the couple focuses on oral sex, maintaining the same relaxed and comfortable position.

  1. The person who wants to receive oral sex lies on their side with their legs slightly bent.
  2. The person who wants to give oral sex positions themselves in front of their partner, adjusting the position for comfortable access.
  3. Maintain a slow and steady rhythm, ensuring that both of you are comfortable and enjoying the skin-to-skin contact.

✓ Tips
  • Ensure that both partners are comfortable and well-supported to avoid tension in the lower back and hips.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration according to your preferences.
  • Use lubricant to ease penetration and increase pleasure.
  • Experiment with different angles and positions to find what works best for both of you.
Interaction type
Vaginal/anal penetration, oral sex, caresses
Active anatomy
Penis / Vagina / Fingers
Receptive anatomy
Vagina / Rectum / Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep and controlled penetration, clitoral or G-spot stimulation, skin-to-skin contact
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, the Whisper position is ideal for beginners due to its relaxed and controlled nature. It allows for gentle penetration and facilitates communication between partners.

Can this position be performed without penetration?

Yes, the Whisper position is also ideal for non-penetrative sexual encounters. You can explore oral sex, caressing, and other forms of mutual stimulation.

How can I enhance pleasure in this position?

To enhance pleasure, you can experiment with different angles of penetration, use external stimulation, and spend time stimulating the clitoris or G-spot.

Safety and evidence 1 topic · 2 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

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