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Illustration of Reverse Cowgirl
Anatomy and biomechanics

Both bodies are positioned lying down, facing each other but in opposite directions. The penetrating person is on top, supporting their weight on their forearms or hands, while the receiving person is on their back with legs open and bent.

Why this position works

This position allows for an intimate and close connection, facilitating eye contact and communication. Shallow penetration can be very pleasurable for both parties, and the rhythm can be easily adjusted.

Physical effort: Medium Posterior

Reverse Cowgirl: Complete Guide

Reverse Cowgirl is a sexual position that promotes intimacy and relaxation, allowing for shallow penetration and precise control of the rhythm.

Also known as: Reverse connection/Inverted link/Opposite union

Deep Intimacy Medium Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Reverse Cowgirl Elevated: More Control

The receiving partner elevates their hips using a pillow or cushion, allowing for deeper penetration and a different angle.

  1. The receiving partner places a pillow or cushion under their hips to elevate them.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves on top, supporting their weight on their forearms or hands.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration according to the comfort of both parties.

Reverse Side Connection: Variety of Angles

Both bodies are positioned sideways, with the penetrating person behind the receptive one, allowing for lateral penetration.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side with legs slightly bent.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, also on their side, and moves in for penetration.
  3. Use smooth, controlled movements to maintain comfort and pleasure.

Reverse Cowgirl with Elevated Legs: Increased Intensity

The receiving partner elevates their legs, allowing for deeper penetration and more intense stimulation.

  1. The receiving partner lies on their back and elevates their legs, resting their heels on the penetrating partner's shoulders.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves on top, supporting their weight on their forearms or hands.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration to maximize pleasure.

✓ Tips
  • Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep you both comfortable and stable.
  • Avoid leaning completely on your partner to avoid causing discomfort.
  • Maintain constant communication to adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Clitoris and G-spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Can this position be performed with anal penetration?

Yes, although it requires more care and lubrication. Make sure both parties are comfortable and prepared.

Is this position suitable for people with back problems?

It depends on the specific condition. It is recommended to use additional supports and move carefully to avoid discomfort.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure in this position?

Adjust the angle of penetration and use circular or back-and-forth movements to stimulate different areas.

Safety and evidence 1 topic · 2 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

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