Anatomy and biomechanics
Oral stimulation of the penis combined with manual stimulation of the shaft and, optionally, the testicles and the perineum. The relative position regulates comfort and depth: the giver controls the rhythm and reach. It is a practice without vaginal/anal penetration, adaptable to almost any situation and physical condition.
Why this position works
Combines the moisture and warmth of the mouth with the precision of the hands, in a direct and highly adjustable pleasure. It offers a wide range of play — rhythm, depth, use of hands — and a strong sense of intimacy and surrender. The versatility of positions allows finding the most comfortable one for long sessions.
Oral Sex on the Penis: the fellatio guide
Direct and very versatile pleasure. Oral sex on the penis combines the mouth and hands in a game of rhythm and pressure that adapts to each person. Comfort, communication, and desire: that's all you need.
Also known as: fellatio · blowjob · oral sex penis · oral on him · blowjob
Variations of this position
1. On your knees: the classic
One person stands or sits; the other kneels in front, performing oral sex on the penis.
The receiver stands or sits, while the giver kneels in front. Offers control and good access.
- The receiver stands or sits.
- The giver kneels comfortably (a cushion under the knees helps).
- Combine mouth and hands.
2. Side-lying: the most comfortable for prolonging
Both people lying on their sides, with one person's head at the level of the other's penis, fellatio.
Both lying on your side, with the giver's head at the level of the penis. The position that puts the least strain on the neck.
- Lie on your sides, in comfortable directions.
- The giver adjusts the height of their head.
- Slow pace, with support for the neck.
✓ Tips
- Combine the mouth with one or two hands: covers more and tires less.
- Depth is not necessary: the glans concentrates the most sensitivity.
- A little saliva or lubricant makes the sliding more pleasurable.
- Take care of your neck's position; lying on your side is usually the most comfortable for prolonging.
- Communicate the rhythm and pressure.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Oral sex on the penis (fellatio)
- Active anatomy
- Mouth / Tongue / Hand
- Receptive anatomy
- Penis
- Main stimulation
- Glans / Shaft
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people GayHetero
Frequently asked questions
Is 'deep throat' necessary?
Not at all; the greatest sensitivity is in the glans, and the hands complete the rest.
What is the most comfortable position for the giver?
Lying on your side or on your knees with good support; avoid straining your neck.
Can I use both hands at the same time?
Yes, it is recommended: it enhances the sensation and reduces fatigue.
Sources and references
- Literatura de sexología clínica y ergonomía sexual
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