Erotic Massage: a slow massage with oil to relax and arouse

The receiver lies face down and the giver, kneeling astride the thighs, massages the back, neck, buttocks and legs.

This is the reference position: the receiver lies face down with the legs together and the arms beside the head. The giver kneels astride the receiver's thighs without sitting on them and works from the lower back up to the shoulders and neck, then down the buttocks and legs. The massage stays on neutral areas and builds anticipation.

1. Lay a towel on the bed; the receiver lies face down with the arms beside the head.
2. The giver kneels astride the receiver's thighs, keeping their weight on their own knees.
3. Warm the oil in your hands and spread it with long strokes from the lower back to the shoulders.
4. Continue on the neck, buttocks and legs, varying pressure and asking what feels good.

The receiver turns face up and the giver, kneeling beside them, massages the chest, belly and thighs and can reach the erogenous zones.

The receiver turns onto the back, with a pillow under the head and the legs relaxed. The giver kneels beside the receiver, or between the legs if both prefer, so as not to put weight on the belly. The massage covers the chest, belly and inner thighs and, if both want, can move on to manual stimulation of the genitals. Here there is eye contact.

1. The receiver turns face up, with a pillow under the head.
2. The giver kneels beside the receiver, without putting weight on the belly.
3. Massage the chest, belly and thighs with slow strokes, coming closer to the genitals gradually.
4. If you reach the genitals, swap the oil for a water-based lubricant and ask before each step.

The receiver sits between the giver's open legs, back to the giver's chest, and is massaged on the shoulders, neck and arms.

Instead of lying face down, the receiver sits on the bed with the legs crossed or stretched out, and the giver sits behind with the legs open on either side. The giver massages the shoulders, neck, arms and, reaching forward, the chest and belly. There is more body contact, back against chest, and the giver can kiss the neck; nobody kneels, which spares the giver's knees.

1. The giver sits on the bed with the back against the headboard or a cushion and the legs open.
2. The receiver sits between the giver's legs, back towards the giver's chest.
3. Warm the oil and massage the shoulders, neck and arms.
4. Reach forward to the chest and belly if both want, keeping the movements slow.

The giver, with an oiled torso, slides their own chest and belly over the receiver's back instead of using only the hands.

The receiver stays face down as in variation 1. The giver oils their own chest and belly and, supporting their weight on the forearms and knees on either side of the receiver, slides the torso slowly over the back and buttocks. The contact becomes broad and the sensation very different from the hands, but the giver must keep their weight on their own supports so as not to press on the receiver's back.

1. The receiver lies face down on a towel, as in variation 1.
2. The giver spreads oil on their own chest and belly.
3. Supporting the weight on the forearms and knees, the giver lowers the torso until it just touches the receiver's back.
4. Slide slowly up and down, without resting your weight on the receiver, and stop if they feel pressure.