The Queen's Chair: oral sex with control in your hands

She turns around and sits on his face facing along the bed toward his body, with her feet still on the floor.

Turned toward the bed, she leans slightly forward and can rest her hands on the mattress or on his chest, which gives extra support. The angle of his mouth on the vulva changes, and she can see and caress his body.

1. He lies on his back with his head at the edge of the bed.
2. She stands over his head facing the bed, one foot on each side.
3. She lowers herself onto his face, keeping her feet on the floor.
4. She rests her hands on the mattress or on his chest to control her weight.

She slides her pelvis slightly so his mouth reaches the perineum and, if you both want it, the anus.

A small shift of her hips moves the contact back from the clitoris to the perineum and the anus. The setup does not change; only the area stimulated does. Oral-anal contact needs extra hygiene.

1. Start from the basic position.
2. She slides her pelvis a few centimetres so his mouth reaches the perineum.
3. If you both want oral-anal contact, use a dental dam.
4. Do not go back from the anus to the vulva without washing or changing the barrier.

She leans her torso forward and rests her hands on her knees.

Leaning forward tilts her pelvis and moves the contact toward the front of the vulva and the clitoris. Her hands on her knees transfer more weight to her legs, so less rests on his face.

1. Start from the basic position.
2. She leans her torso forward from the hips.
3. She rests her hands on her knees.
4. She adjusts the tilt until the contact feels right for both of you.

She lifts her hips slightly and hovers just above his face, with all her weight on her feet.

With no weight on his face, he breathes freely and moves his head and tongue more easily, while she controls the contact entirely by raising or lowering her hips. It asks more of her thighs, so it suits shorter moments.

1. Start from the basic position.
2. She presses into her feet and lifts her hips a little.
3. She lowers or raises her pelvis to adjust the contact.
4. She sits back down on the edge of the bed when her legs tire.

He keeps using his mouth and adds his fingers to caress the vulva or the clitoris.

The position stays the same, but his free hand reaches between her thighs. Combining mouth and fingers lets him vary the stimulation while she keeps control of the pressure.

1. Start from the basic position.
2. He brings one hand up between her thighs.
3. He caresses the vulva or the clitoris with his fingers while using his mouth.
4. She tells him which pressure and rhythm she prefers.