69 classic lying down: mutual oral sex between women

The same 69, but the partner underneath rests her head on a high pillow or a folded cushion so she does not have to lift it.

In the basic position, the woman underneath often has to lift her head to reach the vulva above her, which tires the neck. With a higher pillow her mouth is already at the right height and her neck can rest. The partner on top may need to move her knees slightly to make room for the pillow.

1. Place a high pillow or a folded cushion where the partner underneath will rest her head.
2. She lies on her back with her knees bent and apart.
3. The other gets on all fours above her, facing the opposite way, with her knees on either side of the pillow.
4. Adjust until both mouths reach without straining the neck.

The same 69, with a large mirror beside the bed so that both can see the scene while they stimulate each other.

The position does not change: what changes is the view. In a 69 you cannot see each other's faces, and a mirror at the side lets you watch your partner's body and reactions. Some people find it very arousing; others find it distracting.

1. Place a large mirror beside the bed, at the height of the mattress.
2. Get into the basic 69: one on her back, the other on all fours above her, facing the opposite way.
3. Turn your heads slightly towards the mirror whenever you want to look.
4. Remove it if it distracts you more than it adds.

The same 69, adding a small external vibrator or a suction toy on the clitoris while the mouth caresses the labia.

The position does not change: a toy is added to the mouth. The vibrator can take over the constant stimulation of the clitoris that some women need, while the tongue moves around it. Hold it with the free hand.

1. Choose a small, clean, charged vibrator or suction toy.
2. Get into the basic 69.
3. Rest the toy on the clitoris at low intensity and caress the labia with the mouth.
4. Wash the toy or change its condom before using it on your partner.

The same 69, but while the mouth stays on the clitoris, the fingers caress the labia or gently penetrate the vagina.

The position does not change: a hand is added to the mouth. The partner underneath has her hands free and reaches easily; the one on top supports herself on one forearm and uses the other hand. Some women enjoy combining clitoral and vaginal stimulation, although sensations vary.

1. Wash your hands and keep your nails short.
2. Get into the basic 69.
3. Keep the mouth on the clitoris and caress the vaginal entrance with your fingers before going in, with lubricant if needed.
4. Follow your partner's signals to adjust the rhythm.

The same head-to-toe position, but you take turns: one gives oral sex while the other only receives and relaxes.

The position does not change, only the rhythm. The one receiving can let go and focus on the sensations, and the one giving can keep a steady rhythm on the clitoris without distractions. It suits women who find it hard to do both at once or who are close to orgasm.

1. Get into the basic 69.
2. Agree on a signal to switch, such as a squeeze on the thigh.
3. One gives oral sex while the other only receives.
4. Switch at the signal, and go back to doing it at the same time whenever you like.