The Surrender: connection and pleasure in lesbian surrender
The Surrender is a position of intimacy where manual pleasure blends with trust and emotional surrender between two women.
Also known as: Lesbian Surrender · Reclined Manual Stimulation
Anatomy and biomechanics
This position is based on manual stimulation, where one woman penetrates with her fingers while the other surrenders to the pleasure. The reclining woman can control the depth and angle of penetration, while the other uses her fingers to stimulate key points such as the clitoris and vagina. The position allows for an intimate connection, with slow and deep movements that can vary in intensity according to both partners' responses.
Why this position works
The Surrender is enjoyed for the combination of physical and emotional pleasure. The closeness allows for a deep connection, while manual stimulation offers precise control over pleasure. The position is ideal for exploring intimacy and enjoying the touch and response of your partner's body.
Variations of this position
Variant with swapped roles
The woman who was initially lying down is now the one who stimulates, while the other lies down and receives the pleasure.
- The woman who is going to receive the pleasure lies on her back.
- Her partner positions herself between her legs and begins manual stimulation.
- Both can adjust the rhythm and intensity according to their pleasure.
Ajoutant une stimulation supplémentaire
Un vibreur ou un gode est intégré pour augmenter la stimulation.
- La femme allongée se prépare à recevoir du plaisir.
- Son partenaire utilise un vibreur ou un gode pour stimuler le clitoris ou pénétrer le vagin.
- Les deux peuvent ajuster l'intensité et le rythme selon leur plaisir.
Emphasis on intimacy
Kisses and caresses are added to increase emotional connection.
- The woman lying down prepares to receive pleasure.
- Her partner positions herself between her legs and begins manual stimulation.
- Both kiss and caress each other while enjoying mutual pleasure.
✓ Tips
- Maintain communication to adjust the intensity and rhythm.
- Use lubricant for greater comfort and pleasure.
- Explore different angles and movements to find what both enjoy the most.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Manual stimulation and penetration
- Active anatomy
- Fingers of the dominant hand, clitoris, and vagina
- Receptive anatomy
- Clitoris, vagina, and vaginal lips
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Lesbien
Frequently asked questions
Is deep penetration necessary in this position?
No, penetration can be superficial or deep according to both partners' preference. What's important is the connection and mutual pleasure.
How can I improve stimulation in this position?
Experiment with different circular movements, pressures, and rhythms. Communication is key to adjusting the stimulation to your partner's preferences.
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, it's an ideal position for beginners due to its focus on intimacy and communication. It allows for gradual and pleasurable exploration of your partner's body.
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