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The Valedictorian: sexual position with intimate connection

The Graduate is a sexual position that combines intimacy and pleasure, ideal for clitoral stimulation and emotional connection. This position allows full control over the intensity and rhythm of penetration, making the experience very personalized.

Also known as: Valedictorian / The Graduate / The Professional

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Illustration of The Valedictorian: Position where the person above controls the rhythm with clitoral stimulation.
Anatomy and biomechanics

In The Graduate, bodies are positioned on their knees, with the receptive partner above. The primary point of stimulation is mainly clitoral, although it also allows for medium penetration. The height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) must be adjusted to maintain a comfortable and stable position.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to provide intimate contact and direct clitoral stimulation. Additionally, it allows the receptive partner to control the rhythm and depth of penetration, which can increase pleasure and satisfaction.

Sensory Exploration Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Medium Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

The Incline Graduate: Greater Depth and Control

In this variation, the receptive person leans forward, allowing for deeper penetration and greater control over the angle of stimulation.

  1. The receptive person kneels on the bed, with their hands resting on the mattress in front of them.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. The receptive person leans forward, allowing for deeper penetration and controlling the angle of stimulation.

The Reclined Graduate: Relaxation and Comfort

In this variant, the receptive person lies on their back, allowing a more relaxed and comfortable position.

  1. The receptive person lies on their back on the bed, with their legs bent and feet resting on the mattress.
  2. The penetrating person kneels between the receptive person's legs, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. The receptive person lifts their hips to allow penetration, controlling the rhythm and depth of the movement.

The Lateral Graduate: Variety and Different Stimulation

In this variant, the bodies are positioned laterally, allowing for different stimulation and a greater variety of movements.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side in bed, with the top leg bent and the bottom leg extended.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. The penetrating person leans forward, allowing penetration from a lateral angle and controlling the rhythm and depth of the movement.

✓ Tips
  • Use pillows or supports to maintain a comfortable and stable position.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the rhythm and intensity according to both partners' preferences.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or pain in the lower back or joints.
Interaction type
Oral sex on the vulva, oral sex
Active anatomy
Vulva
Receptive anatomy
Vagina / Clitoris
Main stimulation
Clitoral
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is The Graduate suitable for beginners?

Yes, this position is suitable for beginners due to its simplicity and the ability to control the rhythm and intensity.

How can I increase pleasure in this position?

You can increase pleasure by using external stimulation or taking the time to stimulate the clitoris before penetration.

What should I do if I feel discomfort in the lower back?

Ensure you use pillows or additional supports to maintain a comfortable and stable position. You may also change the height of your knees to redistribute the weight.

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