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The Hummingbird Hug: rear entry kneeling at the edge of the bed

The Hummingbird Hug is a rear-entry position at the edge of the bed. The receiving partner kneels right at the edge, knees apart, and lowers chest and head onto the mattress with the arms folded under the head, so the hips stay raised. The penetrating partner stands upright on the floor behind, holding the receiving partner's buttocks. The bed puts both pelvises at the same height, so it takes little effort, and it allows deep vaginal or anal penetration with the standing partner setting the pace.

Also known as: Chibi · Doggy at the edge of the bed · Face-down doggy

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Illustration of The Hummingbird Hug: Rear entry at the edge of the bed: the receiving partner kneels with chest and head on the mattress, hips raised, while the penetrating partner stands on the fl
Anatomy and biomechanics

The receiving partner kneels on the mattress at the very edge of the bed, knees apart, and lowers the chest and head onto the mattress, arms folded under the head; the hips stay high and the lower legs stick out beyond the edge, in the air, on either side of the penetrating partner. The penetrating partner stands on the floor, upright, feet planted, with both hands on the receiving partner's buttocks. The bed brings both pelvises to the same height, so neither has to squat or climb. The standing partner controls the rhythm and depth; penetration can be deep. The load falls on the receiving partner's knees and neck. There is no eye contact or kissing, and body contact is limited to the pelvis and hands.

Why this position works

Many couples like it because it is comfortable for both: the receiving partner rests on the mattress and can relax completely, while the standing partner moves freely without kneeling. The raised hips allow deep penetration, which some people enjoy and others find too intense, so depth is easy to adjust. Some people also enjoy the sense of surrender for one partner and of control for the other. It is not a position for eye contact or kissing, and how it feels varies from person to person.

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Variations of this position

Variation 1: on the forearms

The receiving partner lifts the chest off the mattress and rests on the forearms instead of the head.

With the chest raised, the back is flatter and the hips drop a little, so penetration is somewhat less deep and the neck is free. The forearms and elbows take some of the weight.

  1. Get into the Hummingbird Hug at the edge of the bed.
  2. The receiving partner places the forearms on the mattress, shoulder-width apart, and lifts the chest.
  3. The standing partner adjusts their knees to match the new hip height.
  4. Move slowly at first: the angle changes and so does the depth.

Variation 2: with a pillow under the chest

A firm pillow under the receiving partner's chest and shoulders makes the position more restful.

The pillow supports the chest and relieves the neck and shoulders, so the receiving partner can stay longer. The hips stay raised, so depth hardly changes.

  1. Place a firm pillow or folded cushion near the edge of the bed.
  2. The receiving partner kneels at the edge and lowers the chest onto the pillow, head turned to the side.
  3. The standing partner holds the hips and starts with slow movements.

Variation 3: with circular movements

Instead of thrusting in and out, the standing partner moves the hips in slow circles.

The penis stays deeper and presses on different areas rather than sliding back and forth. It is gentler on the cervix than hard thrusting and lowers the risk of the penis slipping out and bending.

  1. Get into the base position with the receiving partner kneeling at the edge of the bed.
  2. The standing partner enters slowly and stays at a comfortable depth.
  3. Holding the receiving partner's hips, they make slow circles with the pelvis.
  4. Alternate circles and short movements, and ask what feels good.

Variation 4: the receiving partner sets the pace

The standing partner stays still and the receiving partner rocks the hips back and forth.

The receiving partner pushes with the knees and forearms to rock backwards and forwards, controlling depth and speed. It is useful for going slowly at first, especially for anal sex.

  1. Get into the base position; the receiving partner places the forearms on the mattress to push.
  2. The standing partner stays still, with hands resting on the hips.
  3. The receiving partner rocks backwards and forwards at their own pace and depth.
  4. Swap control again whenever you like.

Variation 5: one knee on the bed

The penetrating partner rests one knee on the edge of the bed and keeps the other foot on the floor.

Raising one knee tilts the penetrating partner's pelvis and changes the angle of entry, which some people find hits a different spot. It is less stable than standing on both feet, so movements should be shorter.

  1. Start from the base position.
  2. The penetrating partner places one knee on the mattress beside the receiving partner's leg, keeping the other foot firmly on the floor.
  3. Hold the hips for balance and use short, controlled movements.
  4. Go back to both feet on the floor if you feel unsteady.

✓ Tips
  • Choose a bed whose edge is at the height of the standing partner's hips; if it is too low, they can bend their knees slightly or place a firm cushion under the receiving partner's knees.
  • Put a pillow under the receiving partner's chest or head and turn the head to the side to avoid straining the neck.
  • Start with slow, shallow movements: the angle allows deep penetration, which can be painful against the cervix. Stop if there is pain.
  • When thrusting hard from behind, the penis can slip out and bend against the body; keep a steady rhythm and guide it back in by hand.
  • For anal sex, use plenty of lubricant and a condom, go slowly and never switch from anal to vaginal without changing the condom.
  • Use a condom and lubricant if you need protection against STIs or pregnancy.
Interaction type
Vaginal or anal penetration from behind, receiving partner kneeling at the edge of the bed, penetrat
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina or anus
Main stimulation
Deep vaginal or anal penetration from behind
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is the Hummingbird Hug suitable for beginners?

Yes. It takes little effort and little balance: the receiving partner rests on the bed and the other stands on the floor. The main thing is to start slowly because penetration can be deep.

What if the bed is too low or too high?

If it is too low, the standing partner can bend their knees or the receiving partner can kneel on a firm cushion. If it is too high, the standing partner can stand on a stable, non-slip platform.

Can it be used for anal sex?

Yes. Use plenty of lubricant and a condom, start very slowly and let the receiving partner say when to go deeper. Stop if there is pain.

Can you see each other's faces?

No. The receiving partner faces away, with the head on the mattress. It is a position about sensation and trust rather than looking at each other.

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