Blazing Embrace: squatting on a table, held from behind
The Blazing Embrace is a rear-entry position at a table. She squats on top of a sturdy table, feet flat on the tabletop and hands resting on it in front of her, with her back to her partner. He stands on the floor behind her, presses his chest against her back and wraps his arms around her. The table brings their hips and heads to roughly the same height, so penetration, vaginal or anal, can be deep while he holds her close. It asks for good balance and strong knees.
Also known as: Hottest Lover
Anatomy and biomechanics
She squats on the tabletop with her knees deeply bent and close together and her feet flat on the surface. She leans her torso slightly forward and rests her hands on the table in front of her, while her back stays against his chest. He stands on the floor directly behind her, feet planted, and wraps his arms around her torso, which steadies her and lets him guide the movement. He sets the pace with his hips; her squat keeps the angle steep, so penetration tends to be deep. Her support comes from her feet, her hands, the table and his body. The main load falls on her knees, which are fully bent, and on her wrists. There is no eye contact; he can only kiss her neck or cheek. Her belly is free.
Why this position works
Some couples like it because it combines deep rear-entry penetration with a close, full-body hug: his chest against her back and his arms around her. He can control the rhythm while holding her steady, and his hands are close to her breasts and, if they wish, her clitoris. The angle and depth may suit people who enjoy fuller sensations, though how it feels varies from person to person. It is not a position for eye contact or kissing on the mouth.
Variations of this position
Variation 1: kneeling on the table, less strain on the knees
Same embrace from behind, but she kneels on the tabletop instead of squatting.
Instead of a deep squat, she kneels near the edge of the table with her knees on a folded towel and her hands on the tabletop. Her knees are less bent, so the load on them drops and balance is much easier. Her hips sit a little lower, so the table may need to be lower too. He still stands behind, chest against her back, arms around her.
- Place a folded towel near the edge of a stable table.
- She kneels on it with her back to him, knees slightly apart, and rests her hands on the table.
- He stands behind her, adjusts his stance so their hips line up, and wraps his arms around her torso.
- He moves slowly at first; she leans back against his chest whenever she wants more contact.
Variation 2: torso upright against his chest, closer and slower
She lifts her hands off the table and leans her whole back against him for a tighter hug.
She stays squatting but straightens her torso and leans fully back against his chest, holding his forearms instead of the table. He takes more of her balance with his arms, so movements become shorter and slower and penetration usually a little less deep. Contact is closer: he can kiss her neck and his hands are free to caress her breasts or clitoris. It needs a very steady stance from him.
- Start in the basic position, with her squatting and her hands on the table.
- He tightens his hug around her torso and plants his feet firmly.
- She lifts her hands one at a time and rests her back against his chest, holding his forearms.
- Keep the movement short and slow; if she feels unsteady, she puts her hands back on the table.
Variation 3: wide squat, steadier balance
She places her feet wider apart and lets her knees open, which gives her a broader, more stable base.
Instead of keeping her knees together, she sets her feet wider on the tabletop and lets her knees open outwards. The wider base makes her balance steadier and opens the hips, so her pelvis sits a little lower and closer to his. Her clitoris is easier to reach, for his hand or hers. It needs some hip flexibility; the knees are still deeply bent.
- From the basic position, she moves one foot at a time towards the sides of the table.
- She lets her knees open outwards, keeping her hands on the table.
- He adjusts his height by bending his knees slightly, if needed, so their hips stay aligned.
- One of them can add clitoral stimulation by hand while he moves slowly.
✓ Tips
- Use a solid, stable table that will not slide or tip; check it can hold her weight before starting.
- Choose a height that puts her hips level with his; if the table is too high or too low, he will strain his legs or back.
- She should keep her hands on the table and her weight centred over her feet; his arms help, but he should not lift or carry her.
- If her knees ache in the deep squat, she can kneel on a folded towel instead or take breaks.
- Start slowly: the angle allows deep penetration, so go shallow first and stop if there is pain. Thrusting from behind with too much force can bend the penis, so keep the movement controlled.
- Use lubricant, and for anal sex use plenty, go slowly and use a condom; do not switch from anus to vagina without changing the condom.
- If either of you feels unsteady, stop and get down from the table carefully.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Vaginal or anal penetration from behind
- Active anatomy
- Penis
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagina or anus
- Main stimulation
- Deep vaginal or anal penetration from behind, with full body contact
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
It is better for couples with some experience: holding a deep squat on a table takes balance and strong knees. Try it first with slow movements and a very stable table.
What kind of table works best?
A solid table that does not wobble, roughly at the height of his hips once she is squatting on it. Avoid folding tables, glass tops or furniture on wheels.
What if her knees hurt?
She can kneel on the table instead of squatting, with a folded towel under her knees, or pause and stretch. If the pain persists, it is better to choose another position.
Can it be used for anal sex?
Yes. Use plenty of lubricant and a condom, go slowly, and let the receiving partner say when to go deeper. Never go from anal to vaginal penetration without changing the condom.
Safety and evidence
This section summarizes anatomical and clinical evidence relevant to this position. The sources provide context; they do not show that a specific position guarantees pleasure, orgasm or a particular type of stimulation.
G-spot: what the evidence says
The “G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not demonstrated a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary from person to person.
A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence
The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed as a term for a deep area of the anterior vaginal wall. The available evidence is limited and does not support treating it as a confirmed anatomical structure.
Anatomical variability
Vaginal shape, axis and dimensions vary considerably from person to person. As a result, depth and comfort may differ even when using the same position.
Pain and deep penetration
If penetration causes deep, recurrent or persistent pain, it is advisable to reduce the depth or stop the activity. If the problem continues, a professional assessment is recommended.
Lubrication and comfort
When there is dryness, friction or discomfort, a suitable lubricant may make sexual activity easier and improve comfort. Its use is not universally necessary.
Anal sex: care and prevention
The anus does not lubricate itself and its lining is thin. Plenty of lubricant, a condom, going slowly and being able to stop at any moment make it more comfortable and lower the risk of injury and infection.
Penile fracture: prevention and warning signs
It is uncommon, but it can happen when the erect penis bends suddenly, often after slipping out and hitting the partner’s pubic bone or perineum. Moving with control and slowing down if the penis slips out helps prevent it.
Clitoral stimulation and orgasm
For many women, the most reliable route to orgasm is clitoral stimulation, direct or indirect. A position that leaves hands free or lets the clitoris be rubbed makes it easier to add during penetration.
STI protection: condoms and dental dams
A condom, put on from the start and used throughout, is the most effective way to reduce sexually transmitted infections during penetration. For oral sex, a condom or a dental dam lowers the risk.
Reviewed by Francisco Muñoz, editor ·
Related sex positions
The Hummingbird Hug
Rear entry at the edge of the bed: the receiving partner kneels with chest and head on the mattress, hips raised,…
The Donkey Punch
She kneels on the sofa with her chest down; he leans over her hips facing the opposite way and enters from above.
Breeze
She lies flat on her stomach on the bed, hips at the edge and legs together, while he stands on the floor behind her…
Advanced Edge Doggy Style
Rear entry at the edge of the bed: the receiving partner on all fours with one foot on the floor, the other partner…
Pleasure Wall
Standing rear entry: the penetrating partner leans against the wall and the receiving partner stands in front, facing…
Hill
Acrobatic: the receiver stands against a wall and the partner does a headstand in front, upside down and back to…
The Venus Spiral
She is upside down beside a sofa, with her shoulders and upper back on the seat and her legs together pointing up…
Narcissus
Standing position with deep point, G-spot stimulation.
The Phoenix Embrace
The penetrating partner sits on a chair, leaning back; the receiving partner sits on their lap facing away, feet on…
The Mason's Workshop
Rear entry on an armchair: the receiving partner kneels on the seat facing the backrest, forearms folded on top of…
Wild Filly
Rear-entry position beside a sturdy table: she rests one knee and both hands on the tabletop with the other foot on…