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Illustration of The Column
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the penetrating person holds their partner by the hips or buttocks, while the receiving person can wrap their legs around the other's waist. Penetration is medium, and the focus of stimulation is deep.

Why this position works

This position allows for intense visual and physical connection, fostering intimacy and communication during sexual intercourse. Additionally, deep stimulation can be very pleasurable for both parties.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Column: Deep Sexual Position

The Column is a sexual position where the bodies are arranged face to face, standing, allowing for medium penetration and a focus on deep stimulation. Ideal for those seeking intimacy and visual connection.

Also known as: Column / Vertical face to face / Facing each other

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Seated Variant

In this variant, the receiving person sits on an elevated surface, such as a table or the edge of the bed, while the penetrating person stands in front of them.

  1. The receiving person sits on an elevated surface with their legs open.
  2. The penetrating person stands between their partner's legs, holding them by the hips.
  3. They begin with soft and deep penetrations, adjusting the rhythm according to both partners' pleasure.

Supported Variant

In this variant, the receiving person leans against a wall or vertical surface, while the penetrating person stands in front of them.

  1. The receiving person leans against a wall or vertical surface with their legs apart.
  2. The penetrating person stands between their partner's legs, holding them by the hips.
  3. They begin with soft, deep penetrations, adjusting the pace according to both partners' pleasure.

Leaning Variant

In this variant, the penetrating person leans slightly forward, allowing for deeper penetration and more body contact.

  1. The receiving person stands with legs slightly apart.
  2. The penetrating person stands in front of them, leaning slightly forward.
  3. They begin with soft, deep penetrations, adjusting the rhythm according to both partners' pleasure.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to have good support for your legs and back to avoid fatigue.
  • Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep you both comfortable and stable.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the depth and rhythm of penetration.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for people with back problems?

It depends on the specific condition. If there are back problems, it's important to use adequate supports and avoid sudden movements.

Can this position be performed in the shower or other places?

Yes, as long as there is a stable and safe support to prevent slipping or falling.

How can I increase the intensity of stimulation in this position?

By adjusting the depth of penetration and using circular or back-and-forth movements to stimulate different areas.

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