Entangled Spoon: standing carry with the receiving partner held in the air
The Entangled Spoon is an acrobatic standing position, not a spoon lying on the bed. The penetrating partner stands in a forward lunge and holds the receiving partner horizontally in the air, face up, by the waist and hip. The receiving partner's pelvis rests against the standing partner's hips, one leg hooked over their shoulder and the other crossed in front of their chest. Penetration, vaginal or anal, tends to be deep, and the standing partner sets the whole rhythm. It demands a lot of strength and balance and carries a real risk of falling.
Also known as: Spork
Anatomy and biomechanics
The penetrating partner stands with one leg forward and bent and the other straight behind, in a stable lunge, torso leaning slightly forward. Both hands hold the receiving partner by the waist and the side of the hip. The receiving partner is held in the air in a horizontal line, lying face up, with no contact with the floor: the pelvis rests against the standing partner's hips, one leg hooks over their shoulder and the other crosses in front of their chest, under the arm, which helps lock the body in place. The arms stretch out above the head. All the weight is carried by the standing partner's legs, lower back and arms, and the movement comes from short pelvic thrusts. The faces are far apart, so there is no eye contact or kissing; body contact is limited to the pelvis, legs and hands.
Why this position works
Some couples enjoy it as a challenge and for the feeling of being carried and letting go completely, while the standing partner controls depth and rhythm. With the receiving partner's legs raised, penetration tends to be deep, and some people enjoy the pressure this angle creates; others find it uncomfortable. It is a position to try briefly, for its novelty, rather than to stay in for long. Sensations vary from person to person.
Variations of this position
Variation 1: shoulders resting on the bed
The receiving partner keeps their shoulders and upper back on the edge of the bed, and only the pelvis is lifted.
Only the support changes: the receiving partner's upper back rests on the mattress, so the standing partner lifts just the hips and legs. The weight carried is much lower and the risk of falling almost disappears; the legs stay over the shoulder and across the chest as in the main position.
- The receiving partner lies face up across the bed, with the hips at the edge.
- The penetrating partner stands at the edge in a lunge and holds the waist and hip.
- The receiving partner hooks one leg over the shoulder and crosses the other in front of the chest.
- The standing partner lifts the pelvis to hip height while the shoulders stay on the bed, and moves with short thrusts.
Variation 2: both legs over the same shoulder
Instead of crossing one leg over the chest, the receiving partner rests both legs together on the same shoulder.
Only the legs change: both rest together and straight on one shoulder of the standing partner. The receiving partner's pelvis tilts slightly to one side and the legs together make the entrance feel tighter; the body is less locked in place, so the hands must hold the hips more firmly.
- Start from variation 1, with the shoulders on the bed.
- The receiving partner brings both legs together and rests them on one shoulder of the standing partner.
- The standing partner wraps one arm around the legs and keeps the other hand on the hip.
- Move slowly with short thrusts, and lift the pelvis off the bed only if you both feel stable.
Variation 3: hips turned to one side
The receiving partner turns the hips a quarter turn to the side, legs bent together across the standing partner's body.
Only the angle of the pelvis changes: the receiving partner rotates the hips to one side, like a spoon in the air, with both knees bent together against the standing partner's chest. The angle of entry changes and the legs no longer need to reach the shoulder, which is easier for those with less flexibility; the standing partner holds the upper hip and the waist.
- Start with the shoulders on the edge of the bed, as in variation 1.
- The receiving partner turns the hips to one side and brings both knees together in front of the standing partner's chest.
- The standing partner holds the upper hip with one hand and the waist with the other.
- Move with short thrusts and return to the main position or to the bed if it becomes uncomfortable.
✓ Tips
- Try it next to the bed or over a soft surface, on a firm, non-slip floor, and only if the person lifting has enough strength in the legs, back and arms.
- Start from the edge of the bed (variation 1) and lift the hips only when you both feel stable; stop at the first sign of wobbling or fatigue.
- The receiving partner hooks one leg firmly over the shoulder and crosses the other over the chest: this distributes the weight and prevents slipping.
- Keep thrusts short and controlled: if the penis slips out and re-enters at an angle, it can bend and be injured.
- Use lubricant; for anal sex, plenty of lubricant, a condom and a slow start, and stop if there is pain.
- Avoid it with back problems, and do not hold the position for long: lower the receiving partner gently onto the bed before tiring.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Standing vaginal or anal penetration, with the receiving partner held in the air
- Active anatomy
- Penis
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagina or anus
- Main stimulation
- Deep vaginal or anal penetration, with the penetrating partner standing and holding the receiving pa
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is it suitable for beginners?
No. It requires the standing partner to carry the full weight of the other person in a lunge, with a lot of balance. It is better to start from the edge of the bed and only lift when you both feel stable.
Why is it called a spoon if it is done standing?
The name comes from the catalogue and refers to how the legs are intertwined; the mechanics are a standing carry, with the receiving partner face up and held in the air.
Can it be used for anal sex?
Yes. Use plenty of lubricant and a condom, start very slowly and keep thrusts short, because the receiving partner cannot control the depth. Stop if there is any pain.
What are the main risks?
Falling, strain on the lower back and arms of the person lifting, and bending of the penis if it slips out. A firm surface, a bed close by and short sessions reduce these risks.
Safety and evidence
Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.
G-spot: what the evidence says
“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.
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