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Illustration of The Whispering Meeting
Anatomy and biomechanics

In The Whispering Meeting, both participants are seated face to face, with their legs intertwined for greater stability. The penetrating person controls the rhythm while the receptive person can adjust the depth of contact. The position allows subtle movements and circles that maximize pleasure for both the penis and the G-spot.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to unite the couple in an intimate hug, allowing an emotional connection while enjoying physical pleasure. Closeness and eye contact enhance intimacy, making the experience both sensual and affectionate.

Physical effort: Medium Seated

The Whispering Meeting: Deep Connection and Mutual Pleasure

The Whispering Meeting is a position that celebrates intimacy and skin-to-skin contact, ideal for those seeking a deep emotional and physical connection.

Also known as: Giving and Receiving · The Vertical Hug · The Intimate Connection

Variations of this position

Greater connection and controlled rhythm

Deep penetration and slow rhythm are emphasized.

  1. Sit with your legs stretched out and have the receptive person sit on top of you.
  2. Wrap your legs around your partner's waist.
  3. Maintain a slow, controlled rhythm, enjoying the deep penetration.

More intense and passionate movements

Incorporate faster and more passionate movements.

  1. Sit with your legs crossed and have the receptive person sit on top of you.
  2. Hug your partner and start with circular and faster movements.
  3. Adjust the intensity according to mutual pleasure.

Focus on clitoral stimulation

Manual clitoral stimulation is added during penetration.

  1. Sit with your legs open and the receptive person sits on top of you.
  2. Use one hand to stimulate the clitoris while the other embraces you.
  3. Maintain a steady rhythm and enjoy the double stimulation.

✓ Tips

  • Maintain constant communication to adjust the rhythm and depth.
  • Use pillows or cushions for greater comfort and support.
  • Avoid abrupt movements to avoid losing balance.

Key facts

Interaction type
Deep intimacy and skin-to-skin contact
Active anatomy
The penis
Receptive anatomy
The G-spot and the vagina
Main stimulation
G-spot / A-spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is it necessary to have a lot of flexibility for this position?

No, The Whispering Meeting is accessible to most people, as long as the position is adapted for greater comfort.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure in this position?

Experiment with circular movements and subtle angle changes to stimulate different erogenous zones.

Is it recommended for couples seeking an emotional connection?

Yes, this position is ideal for strengthening the emotional connection thanks to close contact and the intimate hug.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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