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The Whispering: Complete Guide to the Sexual Position

This position combines rhythm and depth, ideal for exploring mutual pleasure while maintaining an intimate connection.

Also known as: The Whisper · The Deep Rhythm · The Arch

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Illustration of The Whispering II: She positions herself on top, supporting her hands on his thighs or his chest, while controlling the rhythm and depth of penetration. The lean allows for intima
Anatomy and biomechanics

'The Whispering' is a position where she controls the rhythm and depth. By leaning forward, she can adjust the penetration to stimulate key points. He can place his hands on her hips to guide the movement or simply relax and enjoy the sensation. The position allows for visual and tactile connection, enhancing intimacy.

Why this position works

This position is liked for the combination of control and connection. She can adjust the rhythm and depth according to her pleasure, while he enjoys the view and the feeling of intimacy. The possibility of moving in a synchronized manner and the deep stimulation make 'The Whispering' a very satisfying position.

Deep Intimacy Medium Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Deeper variant

She leans further forward, increasing the depth of penetration.

  1. She sits on top of him.
  2. She leans forward, placing her hands on his chest.
  3. She adjusts the rhythm and depth according to her pleasure.

Variant with more contact

Both embrace while she controls the rhythm.

  1. She sits on top of him.
  2. Both embrace, maintaining close contact.
  3. She adjusts the rhythm and depth as they move in unison.

Variant with synchronized rhythm

Both coordinate their movements to create a harmonious rhythm.

  1. She sits on top of him.
  2. Both coordinate their movements to create a synchronized rhythm.
  3. She adjusts the depth and rhythm according to her pleasure, maintaining synchronization.

✓ Tips
  • Maintain constant communication to adjust the rhythm and depth.
  • Use pillows for greater comfort and support.
  • Avoid abrupt movements to not lose balance.
Interaction type
Controlled by her
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
G-spot, A-spot, deep spot
Main stimulation
G-spot / A-spot / Deep spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

How can I increase stimulation in this position?

Lean forward to change the angle of penetration and stimulate deeper points.

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, but it's important that both feel comfortable and practice communication during the act.

How can I make my partner enjoy this position more?

Encourage her to explore different rhythms and depths, and maintain visual and tactile connection.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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