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Illustration of The Sweet Spoon
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies align laterally, with the penetrating person behind. The receptive person can adjust the opening of their legs to control the depth of penetration. Stability is achieved through the use of pillows or the edge of the bed.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its comfort and the possibility of maintaining prolonged skin-to-skin contact. Additionally, it allows for deep stimulation of the G-spot and facilitates communication and synchronization of movements.

Physical effort: Medium Posterior

The Sweet Spoon: Complete Guide to the Relaxed Sexual Position

The Sweet Spoon is a sexual position that allows for an intimate and relaxed connection. Both bodies are positioned from behind, lying on their sides, facilitating medium penetration and deep stimulation of the G-spot.

Also known as: Crème Brûlée / The Spoon / Lateral Position

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Variations of this position

The Deep Spoon: Greater Intensity

This variant increases the depth of penetration and stimulation of the G-spot.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side with legs slightly apart.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind, embracing the receptive partner and adjusting penetration for greater depth.
  3. Maintain slow, deep movements, synchronizing breathing to enhance pleasure.

The Spooning: Rhythmic Movements

This variant introduces rhythmic and oscillating movements for varied stimulation.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side with one leg slightly bent.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind and makes oscillating movements with their hips.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and intensity of the movements to maximize mutual pleasure.

The Elevated Spoon: Greater Control

This variant allows for greater control over penetration and stimulation.

  1. The receptive person lies on their side with a pillow under the hip to elevate the pelvis.
  2. The penetrating person positions themselves behind and adjusts the penetration according to the elevation.
  3. Perform controlled and deep movements, taking advantage of the elevation for more intense stimulation.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use pillows or supports to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Communicate to adjust the depth of penetration according to your preferences.
  • Maintain deep, relaxed breathing to improve connection and pleasure.
  • Avoid sudden movements that may cause discomfort or pain.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
G-spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it is an ideal position for beginners due to its comfort and ease of adjustment.

Can this position be performed in other positions?

Yes, it can be adapted to other lateral positions, as long as the alignment and proper support are maintained.

How can I increase the intensity of pleasure in this position?

You can increase the intensity of pleasure by moving the hips in circles or adjusting the depth of penetration.

Safety and evidence 1 topic · 2 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

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