Anatomy and biomechanics
Both bodies are lying on their sides, facing each other but in opposite directions. The penetrating partner is positioned behind the other, with legs intertwined and arms around the partner's torso. Penetration can be vaginal or anal, depending on the couple's preference.
Why this position works
This position is appreciated for its intimacy and comfort. It allows for a close visual and physical connection, as well as facilitating stimulation of the G spot or A spot (in case of anal sex) due to the depth and angle of penetration.
The Reverse Ribbon: sexual position with deep stimulation
The Inverted Ribbon is a sexual position that allows for an intimate and deep connection between partners. In this position, the bodies are positioned behind each other, lying on their sides and facing opposite directions, which facilitates medium penetration and targeted stimulation.
Also known as: Ribbon (reverse spoon) / Inverted Spoon / Side-by-Side
Variations of this position
The Reverse Cowgirl with Elevation: Increased Depth
In this variation, the penetrating partner slightly elevates their top leg to increase the depth of penetration.
- The receiving partner lies on their side with legs slightly bent.
- The penetrating partner positions themselves behind, also on their side but in the opposite direction, and elevates their top leg to increase depth.
- Both partners move closer and intertwine their legs, starting with slow and deep movements.
The Reverse Cowgirl with Knee Support: More Control
In this variation, the person receiving penetration supports one knee on the ground or a pillow for better control and comfort.
- The person receiving penetration lies on their side with one knee supported on the ground or a pillow.
- The penetrating person positions themselves behind, also on their side but in the opposite direction, and adjusts to maintain balance.
- Both partners come closer and begin with rhythmic movements, taking advantage of the knee support for better control.
The Reverse Tied with Crossed Arms: Greater Intimacy
In this variant, both cross their arms over their partner's torso for a more intimate and close connection.
- The person receiving penetration lies on their side with their arms crossed over their torso.
- The penetrating person positions themselves behind, also on their side but in the opposite direction, and crosses their arms over their partner's.
- Both move closer and begin with slow, synchronized movements, enjoying the intimate connection.
✓ Tips
- Adjust the height and supports (pillows, bed edge) to remain comfortable and stable.
- Communicate constantly to ensure that you both enjoy the experience.
- Avoid sudden movements to prevent lower back or joint injuries.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Vaginal sex / Anal sex
- Active anatomy
- Penis
- Receptive anatomy
- Vagina / Rectum
- Main stimulation
- G spot / A spot
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Hetero
Frequently asked questions
Is this position suitable for beginners?
Yes, it is an appropriate position for beginners due to its comfort and ease of execution. However, it is important to adjust the supports and communicate to ensure a pleasurable experience.
How can I increase the intensity of the stimulation?
You can increase the intensity of the stimulation by moving your hips in circles or adjusting the angle of penetration to focus on the G spot or A spot.
Is it possible to use external stimulation in this position?
Yes, it is possible to use external stimulation in this position. They can be introduced by the receiving partner or the penetrating partner, depending on the preference and comfort of both.
Safety and evidence
Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.
G-spot: what the evidence says
“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.
A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence
The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.
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