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Illustration of The Flying Dutchman
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the bodies are arranged from behind, standing. Penetration is usually shallow, and the focus of stimulation is neutral. Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep you both comfortable and stable.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its comfort and versatility. It allows for shallow penetration and neutral stimulation, ideal for couples seeking a relaxed and pleasurable sexual experience.

Physical effort: High Standing

The Flying Dutchman: A Versatile and Comfortable Sexual Position

The Flying Dutchman is a sexual position that allows for shallow penetration and neutral stimulation. Ideal for couples seeking comfort and versatility.

Also known as: Flying dutchman / The Flyer / The Dutchman

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Bed Support Variation

Use the edge of the bed for support to enhance stability and comfort.

  1. Face the bed, with the receptive partner placing their hands on the edge of the bed.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. Begin with shallow penetration and adjust the pace according to both partners' comfort.

Partner Support Variant

The receptive person leans on the penetrating person for greater stability.

  1. The receptive person stands, placing their hands on the penetrating person's shoulders.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. Begin with shallow penetration and adjust the rhythm according to both partners' comfort.

Wall Support Variant

Use a wall for additional support and greater stability.

  1. Position yourselves near a wall, with the receptive person placing their hands on the wall.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind, adjusting the height with pillows if necessary.
  3. Begin with shallow penetration and adjust the pace according to both partners' comfort.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use adequate supports to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Adjust the height to avoid tension in the lower back and hips.
  • Communicate constantly to ensure you are both comfortable and enjoying yourselves.
Interaction type
vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Shallow penetration
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, it is a suitable position for beginners due to its comfort and versatility. It allows for shallow penetration and neutral stimulation, making it ideal for couples who are just starting out.

Can it be performed in different positions?

Yes, this position can be adapted to different positions using supports like pillows or the edge of the bed to maintain comfort and stability.

Which body areas require special attention?

It is important to take care of the lower back, hips, and joints. Make sure to adjust the height and supports to avoid tension in these areas.

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