The 69+1: Guide for a Sensual and Pleasurable Threesome
The 69+1 is a sexual position ideal for threesomes that combines oral pleasure between two people, while a third penetrates or stimulates one of them.
Also known as: 69+1 Threesome · Inverted Threesome
Anatomy and biomechanics
This position requires coordination among the three participants. Two people get into a 69 position, with one on top and the other below, while the third positions themselves behind one of them. The person who penetrates should ensure to maintain a comfortable rhythm for everyone, while the other two focus on oral pleasure. It's important to communicate constantly to adjust positions and rhythms according to each person's needs.
Why this position works
The 69+1 is a position that combines the intimacy of oral contact with penetration, allowing for a sensual and varied experience. The connection among the three participants creates a dynamic of shared pleasure and complicity.
Variations of this position
Variant with anal penetration
The person who penetrates does so anally instead of vaginally.
- Two participants get into the 69 position.
- The third positions themselves behind the one on top to penetrate anally.
- Maintain constant communication to adjust rhythms and positions.
Non-penetrative variant
The third person manually stimulates instead of penetrating.
- Two participants get into the 69 position.
- The third person positions themselves next to one of them to manually stimulate.
- Maintain constant communication to adjust rhythms and positions.
Variant with role rotation
Participants rotate their roles to vary the experience.
- Two participants get into the 69 position.
- The third positions themselves behind one of them to penetrate.
- Rotate the roles after an agreed time so that everyone experiences different positions.
✓ Tips
- Maintain constant communication to adjust rhythms and positions.
- Use lubricant for greater comfort during penetration.
- Ensure everyone is comfortable and consenting at all times.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Simultaneous penetration and oral stimulation.
- Active anatomy
- Participants' penis, tongue, and hands.
- Receptive anatomy
- Participants' vagina, anus, and mouth.
- Setups and participants
- Trio · 3 people In a threesome
Frequently asked questions
Is it necessary to use lubricant in this position?
Yes, lubricant helps reduce friction and increases pleasure, especially during penetration.
How can I ensure everyone is comfortable?
Communicate constantly and adjust positions according to each person's needs. Comfort is key to shared pleasure.
Can I vary the positions during the act?
Yes, as long as you maintain communication and the consent of all participants.
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