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Mixed Spoon: sensuality and connection in FFM threesomes

The mixed spoon is a variant of the classic position, adapted for FFM threesomes. It combines penetration, cunnilingus, and intimate caresses.

Also known as: Spoon in a threesome · FFM Spoon

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Illustration of Mixed Spoon: One woman lies on her side while the man penetrates her from behind. The second woman positions herself in front, providing caresses and oral stimulation. The b
Anatomy and biomechanics

This position allows for deep and stable penetration, with the woman on the bottom supporting her weight against the man. The second woman has freedom of movement to stimulate the clitoris or breasts. The key is the coordination of rhythms and constant communication.

Why this position works

The mixed spoon is ideal for those seeking an intimate and connected experience. The combination of penetration, skin-to-skin contact, and oral stimulation maximizes pleasure for everyone.

Medium Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Variant with the woman on the bottom in the traditional spoon position

The woman on the bottom lies on her side with her legs bent, while the man penetrates her from behind and the second woman positions herself between her legs for oral stimulation.

  1. The woman on the bottom lies on her side with her legs bent.
  2. The man positions himself behind her to penetrate.
  3. The second woman positions herself between the legs of the woman on the bottom for oral stimulation.

Variant with vaginal and anal penetration

The woman on the bottom receives vaginal penetration, while the second woman can stimulate the clitoris or receive attention from the man with her hands.

  1. The woman on the bottom lies on her side with her legs bent.
  2. The man positions himself behind her for vaginal penetration.
  3. The second woman positions herself between the legs of the woman on the bottom for oral or clitoral stimulation.

Variant with emphasis on intimate contact

The two women kiss while the man penetrates one of them, increasing the emotional connection.

  1. The woman on the bottom lies on her side with her legs bent.
  2. The man positions himself behind her to penetrate.
  3. The second woman positions herself in front of the woman on the bottom to kiss and stimulate her breasts.

✓ Tips
  • Use pillows for greater comfort and support
  • Coordinate your rhythms to avoid discomfort
  • Maintain communication to adjust positions
Interaction type
Penetration + oral stimulation
Active anatomy
Penis (penetration), tongue, and hands (stimulation)
Receptive anatomy
Vagina (penetration), clitoris, and breasts (stimulation)
Setups and participants
Trio · 3 people In a threesome

Frequently asked questions

Is previous experience in threesomes necessary?

No, but communication and trust are key to enjoying this position.

How can I make the position more pleasurable?

Experiment with different angles of penetration and combine caresses with rhythmic movements.

What should I do if someone feels uncomfortable?

Pause and adjust the positions. Everyone's comfort is a priority.

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