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Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the receiver lies on her back with her legs open, while the person providing pleasure kneels or sits between her legs. Holding the hips allows adjusting the pressure and rhythm on the clitoris and vaginal lips. The position facilitates deep and controlled oral stimulation, allowing both participants to enjoy visual contact and emotional connection.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for the combination of intimacy and control it offers. Holding the hips allows the person providing pleasure to adjust the intensity and rhythm according to their partner's reactions, creating a sensual and personalized experience.

Physical effort: Medium Frontal

Oral with hip holding: guide to shared pleasure

This position combines the intimacy of cunnilingus with the physical connection of hip holding, ideal for exploring pleasure in female couples.

Also known as: Cunnilingus with hip holding · Recumbent oral stimulation

Medium Vulva-to-Vulva Configuration

Variations of this position

Increasing depth

The receiver lifts their legs to allow for deeper oral penetration.

  1. The receiver lies on their back and lifts their legs.
  2. The person giving pleasure positions themselves between their partner's legs and holds their hips.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and pressure according to their partner's reactions.

Combining techniques

Manual stimulation of the clitoris is added while performing cunnilingus.

  1. The receiver lies on her back with her legs open.
  2. The person giving pleasure positions themselves between her legs and holds her hips.
  3. Use one hand to stimulate the clitoris while the tongue focuses on the vaginal lips.

Varying the intensity

Alternate between slow and fast movements to increase arousal.

  1. The receiver lies on their back with their legs open.
  2. The person giving pleasure positions themselves between their partner's legs and holds their hips.
  3. Start with slow movements and gradually increase the pace according to your partner's reactions.

✓ Tips
  • Keep the rhythm slow at first to allow your partner to relax.
  • Use your hands to complement oral stimulation, caressing the thighs or abdomen.
  • Avoid pressing too hard with your tongue; sensitivity varies from person to person.
Interaction type
Receptive/active oral.
Active anatomy
Mouth, tongue, and hands (to hold and stimulate).
Receptive anatomy
Clitoris, vaginal lips, and vulva.
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Lesbien

Frequently asked questions

Is additional lubrication necessary?

It's not necessary, but you can use a water-based lubricant if both of you wish to increase slipperiness.

How can I improve communication during this position?

Maintain eye contact and verbalize what you like or adjust the rhythm according to your partner's reactions.

Can I vary the position of my hands?

Yes, you can use one hand to hold the hips and the other to stimulate other erogenous zones, such as the breasts or clitoris.

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