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Physical effort: Low Adapted

Impaler: she lies at the edge of the bed while he kneels on the floor

The Impaler is a face-to-face position that uses the edge of the bed. She lies on her back with her pelvis right at the edge and her legs, almost straight, passing on either side of his waist. He kneels on the floor with his torso upright and holds her hips, setting the pace. Penetration can be deep and the effort is low, especially for her.

Also known as: Impaler · Skewer

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Illustration of Impaler: She lies on her back with her pelvis at the edge of the bed and her legs around his waist; he kneels upright on the floor, holding her hips. Deep penetration wi
Anatomy and biomechanics

The receiving partner lies on her back on the bed with her pelvis at the edge and her arms behind her head. Her legs are open and almost straight, passing on either side of his waist and resting on his hips. The penetrating partner kneels on the floor beside the bed, on knees and insteps, with his torso upright and leaning slightly back, and his hands on her hips. Their torsos form roughly a right angle. He controls depth and rhythm by moving his hips; his knees carry the load.

Why this position works

It is comfortable for the receiving partner, who can relax on the bed while her partner does the work. The partner kneeling has a firm base and good control of rhythm and depth with his hands on her hips. Penetration can be deep, which some people enjoy and others prefer to dose carefully. In the basic form there is little eye contact, though he can lean forward to look at her.

Relaxation and Surrender Easy Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Variation 1: Cushion under her hips

A firm cushion goes under her buttocks, at the edge of the bed, to raise her pelvis.

Raising her pelvis brings it level with his if the bed is low and tilts it slightly, changing the angle of penetration. It also takes some strain off her lower back.

  1. She lies on her back with her pelvis at the edge of the bed.
  2. Place a firm cushion under her buttocks.
  3. He kneels on the floor, upright, and holds her hips.
  4. Adjust the height of the cushion until both pelvises are level.

Variation 2: Legs on his shoulders

Instead of passing around his waist, her legs rise and rest on his shoulders.

With her legs raised, her pelvis tilts up and penetration becomes deeper; he can hold her thighs against his chest. It requires flexibility in the back of the thighs.

  1. Start from the basic position, with him kneeling at the edge of the bed.
  2. She lifts her legs and rests her ankles or calves on his shoulders.
  3. He holds her thighs with his arms.
  4. Begin with short movements, since penetration goes deeper.

Variation 3: Leaning forward over her

He leans his torso forward and rests his hands on the bed beside her, still kneeling on the floor.

Leaning forward brings their faces closer, allowing eye contact and kissing, and changes the angle of penetration; the movement becomes shorter. Some weight shifts onto his hands.

  1. Get into the basic position.
  2. He leans forward and places his hands on the bed on either side of her chest.
  3. She can wrap her legs around his waist to bring him closer.
  4. He moves his hips in short movements while keeping his weight on his hands and knees.

✓ Tips

  • Check the height: her pelvis should line up with his when he kneels upright. A cushion under her hips or under his knees helps adjust it.
  • Put a cushion or folded blanket under his knees; kneeling on a hard floor soon becomes painful.
  • Start slowly, since penetration can be deep, and let her signal when to go further.
  • Her hands are free: she or he can add clitoral stimulation if they wish.
  • Use lubricant if needed and a condom to protect against STIs and pregnancy; stop if there is pain.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Deep vaginal penetration controlled by the kneeling partner
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is the Impaler suitable for beginners?

Yes. It requires little effort or balance; the main thing is getting the bed height right for both of you.

Does it stimulate the G-spot?

It may, because the angle is quite direct, but sensations vary a lot between people. It is better to explore than to expect a specific result.

What if the bed is too high or too low?

If the bed is low, put a cushion under her pelvis; if it is high, he can kneel on a firm cushion. The aim is for both pelvises to be level.

Can we kiss in this position?

Not in the basic form, since he stays upright. He can lean forward and support himself on the bed to get closer.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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