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Illustration of Flame
Anatomy and biomechanics

In the Flame position, bodies are aligned vertically, with the penetrating person holding the receiver. Penetration is usually shallow, but the depth can be adjusted according to the comfort and preference of both. The key is to maintain adequate balance and use supports like pillows or the edge of the bed for greater stability.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to foster emotional and physical connection between partners. Clitoral and deep stimulation, along with the possibility of adjusting the intensity, make it ideal for those seeking a more intimate and pleasurable sexual experience.

Physical effort: High Standing

Flame: Face-to-Face Sexual Position

The Flame position is a sexual position where bodies are arranged face to face, standing. This position allows for an intimate connection and clitoral and deep stimulation, ideal for those seeking a closer and more sensual sexual experience.

Also known as: Flame/On fire/Burning

Variations of this position

Seated Blaze: Variation with support on a surface

In this variation, the receiving person sits on an elevated surface, such as a table or the edge of the bed, while the penetrating person stands between their legs.

  1. The receiving person sits on an elevated surface and opens their legs to allow access.
  2. The penetrating person stands between their partner's legs and leans slightly forward.
  3. Adjust the depth of penetration and start the back-and-forth movement, ensuring comfort and balance.

Supported Burpee: Variation with wall support

In this variation, the receiving person leans against a wall while the penetrating person stands in front of them.

  1. The receiving person leans against a wall and lifts one leg to allow access.
  2. The penetrating person stands in front of their partner and adjusts their height for comfortable penetration.
  3. The back-and-forth motion begins, using the wall for support to maintain balance and stability.

Leaning Burst: Forward-leaning variation

In this variation, the receiving person leans forward, resting on a surface or their partner's shoulder.

  1. The receiving person leans forward and rests on a surface or their partner's shoulder.
  2. The penetrating person stands behind their partner and adjusts the height for comfortable penetration.
  3. The back-and-forth motion begins, ensuring comfort and balance during penetration.

✓ Tips

  • Use supports like pillows or the edge of the bed to maintain stability.
  • Adjust the height to ensure comfortable and pleasurable penetration.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause imbalance or discomfort.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Penis
Receptive anatomy
Vagina
Main stimulation
Clitoral and deep spot
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for people with back problems?

Yes, provided that the appropriate supports are used and the height is adjusted to avoid tension in the lower back.

Can this position be performed on a bed?

Yes, using the edge of the bed as support to maintain stability and comfort.

How can I increase the intensity of the stimulation?

By adjusting the depth of penetration and using circular or back-and-forth movements to stimulate the clitoris and the deep spot.

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