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Illustration of The Surprise
Anatomy and biomechanics

In The Surprise, the bodies are arranged in an inverted position, with her on top. Penetration can be vaginal or anal, and clitoral stimulation is the main focus. Adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to keep you both comfortable and stable.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to provide intense clitoral stimulation and an intimate connection between couples. The inverted position adds an element of novelty and excitement.

Physical effort: Medium Control

The Surprise: An Innovative and Pleasurable Sexual Position

The Surprise is a sexual position that combines mutual stimulation and penetration, ideal for couples looking to explore new sensations. This position allows for an intimate connection and intense clitoral stimulation.

Also known as: Shocker/The Reverse/The Exchange

Sensory Exploration Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Medium Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

The Classic Surprise: Mutual Stimulation

In this variation, both partners focus on mutual stimulation without penetration.

  1. Get into a reversed position, with her on top and facing away from you.
  2. Use your hands and mouth to stimulate her clitoris while she does the same to you.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and intensity according to both of your preferences.

The Penetrative Surprise: Vaginal Penetration

This variation includes vaginal penetration while maintaining clitoral stimulation.

  1. Get into the inverted position with her on top and facing away from you.
  2. Slowly insert your penis into her vagina and adjust the depth according to her comfort.
  3. Maintain clitoral stimulation with your fingers or her mouth while performing penetration.

The Anal Surprise: Anal Penetration

In this variant, penetration is anal, while maintaining clitoral stimulation.

  1. Get into the reversed position with her on top and facing away from you.
  2. Use lubricant to facilitate anal penetration and slowly insert your penis.
  3. Make sure you're both comfortable and adjust the pace according to her preferences.

✓ Tips
  • Make sure to use pillows or supports to maintain comfort and stability.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the intensity and rhythm of penetration.
  • Avoid sudden movements that could cause discomfort or injury.
Interaction type
Position of mutual stimulation and penetration
Active anatomy
Pénis / Vulve / Doigts
Receptive anatomy
Vagin / Anus / Vulve
Main stimulation
Clitoral and penetration
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, as long as the supports are adjusted and preferences and limits are communicated.

Can this position be practiced without penetration?

Yes, The Surprise can also be a position of mutual stimulation without penetration, focusing on oral sex and clitoral stimulation.

Which body areas require more care?

It is important to take care of the lower back, hips, and joints to avoid discomfort during practice.

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