Advanced Edge Doggy Style for gay men: anal sex at the bed's edge
Advanced Edge Doggy Style is a rear-entry position at the edge of the bed that many gay and bisexual men use for anal sex. The receiving partner is on all fours with one knee on the mattress and the other leg stretched down to the floor; the penetrating partner stands behind him with one foot raised onto the bed. It gives the standing partner a lot of control over angle and depth and asks for moderate effort and balance from both. With plenty of lube and a gradual pace, it can be intense without being rushed.
Also known as: Doggy on the edge · Edge doggy
Anatomy and biomechanics
The receiving partner gets on all fours at the edge of the bed, facing away: both hands flat on the mattress, one knee on the edge of the bed and the other leg stretched down with the foot on the floor. The open leg tilts the pelvis and opens the buttocks, which can make entry easier. The penetrating partner stands on the floor right behind him, rests one foot on the edge of the bed and holds his hips with both hands. Penetration is anal and can go deep, so it is best to build up gradually. The standing partner sets the pace; the partner on the bed can push back gently and guide with words. One difference that matters for two men: the receiving partner's penis hangs free, so either of them can stroke it, or the standing partner can reach around with one hand once the rhythm is steady. Body contact is limited to the pelvis against the buttocks and the hands, and there is no eye contact.
Why this position works
Many men like this position because the standing partner can fine-tune the angle and depth with his raised foot, and the receiving partner can relax into the mattress and simply say what works. Entering from behind at this angle, the penis may press towards the prostate for some people, although that does not always happen and not everyone finds it pleasurable. Because the receiving partner's penis is free, it is easy to add a hand. Sensations vary from person to person.
Variations of this position
Variation 1: with both knees on the bed
The receiving partner kneels on the edge of the bed with both knees, a gentler start for anal sex.
With both knees on the mattress, the receiving partner has a steadier base and the pelvis stays level, so penetration is usually less deep and easier to control. He can set the depth himself by moving back slowly. A good way to begin before lowering one leg to the floor.
- Apply plenty of lube and put on a condom.
- The receiving partner kneels on the edge of the bed with both knees and both hands on the mattress.
- The standing partner, both feet on the floor, holds his hips and stays still while the receiving partner moves back slowly.
- Once he is relaxed, the receiving partner can lower one leg to the floor to move into the full position.
Variation 2: on the forearms, with a hand free
The receiving partner rests on his forearms, which raises his hips and frees one hand to stroke himself.
Resting on the forearms lowers the chest and raises the hips, changing the angle of entry; for some men this may bring the penis closer to the prostate, though it is not guaranteed. It also takes the load off the wrists and lets the receiving partner use one hand on his own penis.
- From the base position, the receiving partner bends his arms and rests his forearms on the mattress, with a pillow under the chest if he wishes.
- He keeps one knee on the bed and the other foot on the floor, and uses one hand to touch himself if he wants.
- The standing partner lowers his hips slightly to match the new height.
- Start with slow, shallow movements and go deeper only if it feels good.
Variation 3: with a reach-around
The standing partner keeps both feet on the floor and reaches around to stroke the receiving partner's penis.
With both feet on the floor the standing partner is steadier and moves less, which frees one hand to reach around while the other stays on his partner's hip. Thrusts are usually shorter and slower, so penetration and stimulation can be combined more calmly.
- The receiving partner takes the base position: hands on the mattress, one knee on the bed and the other foot on the floor.
- The standing partner places both feet on the floor, hip-width apart, and holds one hip firmly.
- Once the rhythm is steady, he reaches around with his other hand, using a little lube.
- Slow down the thrusts while you combine both, and let the receiving partner guide the pace of the hand.
Tips and common mistakes
✓ Tips
- Use plenty of lube, water- or silicone-based if you are using latex condoms, and reapply whenever you need to.
- Use a condom and agree beforehand on a simple signal to slow down or stop.
- Warm up first: foreplay, fingers or a small toy help the body relax before penetration.
- Go deeper gradually; the receiving partner can control the depth at first by pushing back slowly himself.
- Make sure the bed is firm and the floor is not slippery; if either of you feels unsteady, stop and reposition.
- Pad the knee on the bed and take breaks to rest wrists and knees.
✗ Mistakes to avoid
- Pushing in quickly or deep from the start: anal sex needs time and relaxation.
- Thrusting hard and blindly: if the penis slips out, guide it back in by hand, because a misdirected thrust can injure it.
- Carrying on through pain: pain is a signal to stop, not something to push through.
Key facts
- Interaction type
- Anal penetration from behind, at the edge of the bed
- Active anatomy
- Penis
- Receptive anatomy
- Anus and rectum (possible prostate stimulation)
- Main stimulation
- Anal penetration from behind, potentially deep
- Setups and participants
- Couple · 2 people Gay
Frequently asked questions
Is this a good position for a first time with anal sex?
It can work, but it is not the gentlest option because it can go deep. For a first time, try the variation with both knees on the bed, use plenty of lube and let the receiving partner set the depth by moving back himself.
Does it stimulate the prostate?
It may. The angle from behind can direct the penis towards the front wall of the rectum, where the prostate is, but this varies from person to person and is not guaranteed. Changing which leg is on the floor or resting on the forearms changes the angle.
Can the receiving partner be touched at the same time?
Yes. His penis hangs free, so he can stroke himself with one hand if he rests on his forearm, or the standing partner can reach around once the rhythm is steady.
What if there is discomfort?
Stop, add more lube and reduce the depth. Moving to both knees on the bed or slowing down usually helps. If the pain continues, change position or leave it for another day.
Safety and evidence
This section summarizes anatomical and clinical evidence relevant to this position. The sources provide context; they do not show that a specific position guarantees pleasure, orgasm or a particular type of stimulation.
Lubrication and comfort
When there is dryness, friction or discomfort, a suitable lubricant may make sexual activity easier and improve comfort. Its use is not universally necessary.
Anal sex: care and prevention
The anus does not lubricate itself and its lining is thin. Plenty of lubricant, a condom, going slowly and being able to stop at any moment make it more comfortable and lower the risk of injury and infection.
Penile fracture: prevention and warning signs
It is uncommon, but it can happen when the erect penis bends suddenly, often after slipping out and hitting the partner’s pubic bone or perineum. Moving with control and slowing down if the penis slips out helps prevent it.
STI protection: condoms and dental dams
A condom, put on from the start and used throughout, is the most effective way to reduce sexually transmitted infections during penetration. For oral sex, a condom or a dental dam lowers the risk.
Reviewed by Francisco Muñoz, editor ·