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Illustration of The Whisper
Anatomy and biomechanics

In The Whisper, both bodies are seated, facing each other. The penetrating partner can adjust the height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) to maintain a comfortable and stable position, facilitating stimulation of the G-spot or the A-spot.

Why this position works

This position allows for close visual and physical connection, facilitating communication and movement synchronization. Deep penetration and stimulation of sensitive spots make it very pleasurable.

Physical effort: Medium Seated

The Whisper: Sexual Position of Intimacy and Depth

The Whisper is a sexual position that combines intimacy and deep penetration, ideal for couples seeking mutual connection and pleasure. This position allows for precise control of the rhythm and depth of penetration.

Also known as: Sweet sin / The Deep Whisper / The Seated Union

Deep Intimacy Power Play Sensory Exploration Medium Penis-Anus Configuration Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Variant: The Leaning Whisper

The penetrating partner leans slightly forward, increasing pressure on the G-spot or A-spot.

  1. The receiving partner sits with legs open and leans their back against a wall or headboard.
  2. The penetrating partner kneels between their partner's legs and leans their torso forward.
  3. Adjust the depth of penetration and rhythm according to the comfort and pleasure of both partners.

Variant: The Twisted Whisper

Both bodies slightly turn to one side, allowing for lateral penetration and different stimulation.

  1. The receiving person sits with legs crossed and slightly turns their body to one side.
  2. The penetrating person sits in front of them, turning their body in the same direction and adjusting the position for lateral penetration.
  3. Maintain eye contact and adjust the rhythm to maximize mutual pleasure.

Variant: The Elevated Whisper

The receiving partner raises their legs, allowing for deeper penetration and intensified stimulation.

  1. The receiving partner sits with their legs raised and resting on their partner's shoulders.
  2. The penetrating partner kneels and adjusts the depth of penetration according to comfort.
  3. Use pillows to support the back and maintain a stable and comfortable position.

✓ Tips

  • Use pillows or cushions to adjust the height and avoid back tension.
  • Maintain constant communication to adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration.
  • Avoid sudden movements to prevent injuries in the lower back or hips.
  • Lubricate adequately to facilitate penetration and reduce friction.

Key facts

Interaction type
Vaginal sex / Anal sex
Active anatomy
Penis / Vulva / Fingers
Receptive anatomy
Vagina / Anus / Vulva
Main stimulation
G-spot / A-spot / Clitoris
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, as long as supports are adjusted and constant communication is maintained to avoid discomfort.

Can this position be performed on different surfaces?

Yes, it is adaptable to different surfaces like the bed, floor, or a chair, as long as stability and comfort are ensured.

Which muscles are primarily worked in this position?

Primarily, the core muscles, glutes, and legs are worked, depending on each person's support.

Safety and evidence 2 topics · 3 clinical and academic references

Scientific context for common terms used on this page. Keeping these terms makes the content easier to understand; the sources clarify what is established and what remains uncertain.

G-spot: what the evidence says

“G-spot” is a widely used term for a sensitive area of the anterior vaginal wall. Scientific literature has not established a discrete anatomical structure with an agreed location, size and nature; sensitivity and response can vary between individuals.

Sources
O'Connell HE, Sanjeevan KV, Hutson JM. Anatomy of the clitoris. The Journal of Urology. 2005. PubMed ↗
Vieira-Baptista P, et al. G-spot: Fact or Fiction? A Systematic Review. Sexual Medicine. 2021. PubMed ↗

A-spot / AFE zone: limited evidence

The “A-spot” or AFE zone has been proposed to describe a deeper area of the anterior vaginal wall. Available evidence is limited and does not support presenting it as a confirmed anatomical structure.

Sources
Chua Chee Ann. A proposal for a radical new sex therapy technique… the AFE Zone Stimulation Technique. Sexual and Marital Therapy. 1997. Original article ↗

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