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The Bully: Dominance and Pleasure in the Gay Couple Position

The Bully is a gay position where control and strength blend with sensuality, ideal for couples seeking intensity and connection.

Also known as: The Dominant · The Mountain · The Horse

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Illustration of The Bully: He positions himself behind, supporting his torso on his partner's back, while his hands wrap around his body to guide the rhythm. Penetration is deep and contr
Anatomy and biomechanics

In The Bully, the receptive partner kneels or lies face down, while the penetrating partner positions themselves behind, supporting their weight on them. Penetration is deep and controlled, with pelvic movements that can vary in intensity. The position allows a great variety of angles and rhythms, adapting to both partners' preferences.

Why this position works

This position is liked for the sense of dominance and connection it generates. The penetrating partner enjoys the control and intimacy of being so close, while the receptive partner appreciates the depth and variety of stimuli it offers.

Medium Penis-Anus Configuration

Variations of this position

Adding height for greater depth

The receptive partner lies on an elevated surface, such as a bed or sofa.

  1. The receptive partner kneels on the bed or sofa.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves behind, resting their torso on their partner's back.
  3. Adjust the rhythm and depth according to both partners' comfort.

Increasing Physical Connection

The penetrating partner wraps their arms around their partner's torso for better control.

  1. The receptive partner kneels or lies face down.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves behind and wraps their arms around their partner's torso.
  3. Maintain a steady rhythm and adjust the pressure according to both partners' preferences.

Varying the Stimulation

The penetrating partner makes circular movements instead of linear ones.

  1. The receptive partner kneels or lies face down.
  2. The penetrating partner positions themselves behind and begins with circular movements.
  3. Adjust the intensity and rhythm to maximize both partners' pleasure.

✓ Tips
  • Use lubricant for greater comfort and to avoid chafing.
  • Communicate to adjust the rhythm and depth.
  • Avoid abrupt movements to prevent injuries.
Interaction type
Deep and controlled penetration.
Active anatomy
Penis and torso (for control and penetration).
Receptive anatomy
Anus and back (to receive penetration and weight).
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Gay

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, but it's important to start with gentle movements and gradually increase the intensity.

How can I make the position more comfortable?

Use pillows to support the knees and hips, and make sure both are relaxed.

Can I vary the angles during penetration?

Yes, by slightly adjusting the position of the torso and hips, you can change the depth and point of stimulation.

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