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Illustration of Reclining Tulip
Anatomy and biomechanics

In this position, the person with the vulva is on top of the person with the penis, both lying down and facing each other. Penetration is medium or shallow, and the main focus of stimulation is the clitoris. The height and supports (pillows, edge of the bed) can be adjusted to maintain comfort and stability.

Why this position works

This position is appreciated for its ability to foster intimacy and emotional connection between partners. Additionally, it allows precise control of the rhythm and depth of penetration, which can increase pleasure for both parties.

Physical effort: Medium Control

Reclining Tulip: Complete Guide to the Intimate Sexual Position

The Reclining Tulip is a sexual position that promotes emotional connection and clitoral stimulation. Both bodies are positioned face to face, lying down, with her on top, allowing precise control of the rhythm and depth of penetration.

Also known as: Tulip / Ivy / Face to Face

Deep Intimacy Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Medium Penis-Vagina Configuration

Variations of this position

Elevated Hip Variation

In this variation, the person with a vulva slightly elevates their hips to change the angle of penetration and increase clitoral stimulation.

  1. The person with a vulva sits astride the person with a penis, facing each other.
  2. Slightly elevate the hips to change the angle of penetration.
  3. Maintain this position while making circular or back-and-forth movements to increase clitoral stimulation.

Arm Support Variant

In this variant, the person with a vulva leans on their arms to have greater control over the movement and depth of penetration.

  1. The person with a vulva sits astride the person with a penis, facing each other.
  2. Lean on your arms to have greater control over the movement.
  3. Make up-and-down or circular movements to vary the stimulation.

Variant with Wrapping Legs

In this variant, the person with a vulva wraps their legs around the waist of the person with a penis to increase intimacy and control of movement.

  1. The person with a vulva sits astride the person with a penis, facing each other.
  2. Wrap your legs around your partner's waist.
  3. Make smooth, controlled movements to maintain penetration and clitoral stimulation.

✓ Tips
  • Use pillows or cushions to adjust the height and maintain comfort.
  • Communicate constantly to adjust the rhythm and depth of penetration.
  • Avoid sudden movements that may cause discomfort or pain.
  • Explore different angles to find the most pleasurable stimulation.
Interaction type
Vaginal sex
Active anatomy
Vulva
Receptive anatomy
Penis
Main stimulation
Clitoral
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is this position suitable for beginners?

Yes, the Reclining Tulip is a suitable position for beginners due to its intimate and controllable nature.

How can I increase clitoral stimulation in this position?

Adjust the angle of penetration and use circular or back-and-forth movements to increase clitoral stimulation.

Is it possible to perform this position on different surfaces?

Yes, this position can be adapted to different surfaces, such as a bed, a sofa, or even the floor, as long as comfort and stability are maintained.

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