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Clitoral Dragon: an inverted position for oral sex

The Clitoral Dragon is an acrobatic position for oral sex on the vulva. The receiving partner lies with their shoulders and upper back on the bed and their hips lifted high, legs straight and spread wide in a V pointing upwards. The giving partner kneels behind the raised hips, holds the pelvis against their chest with both hands and has their mouth at the vulva. It is striking and offers an unusual angle, but it puts weight on the receiver's neck and shoulders and needs strength, flexibility and good coordination. There is no penetration.

Also known as: Dragon · Upside-down cunnilingus

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Illustration of Clitoral Dragon: An inverted position for oral sex: the receiving partner rests on their shoulders with hips in the air and legs in a V, while the giving partner kneels and hold
Anatomy and biomechanics

The receiving partner is upside down: head, shoulders and upper back rest on the bed, the lower back is strongly curled and the hips are lifted high, resting against the giver's torso. The legs are straight and spread in a wide V towards the ceiling. The giving partner kneels upright behind the pelvis, holds the hips with both hands and keeps them steady against their chest, with their mouth at the vulva; their hands can also rest on the receiver's lower belly and pubis. The giver sets the rhythm. Much of the receiver's weight falls on the neck and shoulders, and the position asks a lot of hip flexibility and the lower back. There is no eye contact or kissing, and body contact is partial.

Why this position works

Some couples try it for the novelty and the sense of play: the receiver gives up control while their partner holds them, and the inversion offers a different angle for oral sex on the vulva and clitoris. Some people find being upside down intensifies sensations; others just find it uncomfortable. It is a position for a short while, not for a long session, and how it feels varies from person to person.

Vigor and Energy Sensory Exploration Difficult High Mobility Required Maximized Clitoral Stimulation Non-Penetrative Interaction

Variations of this position

Variation 1: with a folded blanket under the shoulders

The receiver rests their shoulders on a folded blanket or firm cushion and leaves their head on the bed, slightly lower.

With the shoulders raised above the head, the neck bends less and more of the receiver's weight rests on the shoulders. The inversion is the same, but safer and easier to hold.

  1. Fold a blanket or firm cushion and place it where the receiver's shoulders will go.
  2. The receiver lies with their shoulders on the blanket and their head on the bed beyond its edge.
  3. They bring their knees to their chest and the giver lifts their pelvis, holding them by the hips.
  4. The receiver spreads their legs in a V and the giver keeps the pelvis against their chest.

Variation 2: legs bent over the giver's shoulders

Instead of holding their legs straight in a V, the receiver bends their knees and rests their legs over the giver's shoulders or back.

With the legs resting on the giver, the receiver does not have to hold them up or open the hips as wide, and the pelvis is more secure. It takes less flexibility and feels steadier.

  1. Get into the basic position, with the giver holding the receiver's pelvis.
  2. The receiver bends their knees instead of straightening their legs.
  3. They rest the backs of their knees or their calves over the giver's shoulders.
  4. The giver keeps holding the hips and the receiver can draw them closer with their legs.

Variation 3: less inverted, with the giver sitting on their heels

The giver sits back on their heels instead of kneeling upright, so the receiver's pelvis is lower and more of their back rests on the bed.

With the pelvis lower, more of the receiver's back is on the bed and the neck carries much less weight. Less blood rushes to the head; in exchange, the giver leans further forward to reach with their mouth.

  1. The giver kneels and sits back on their heels, close to the receiver's pelvis.
  2. The receiver lies on their back and rests their lower back on the giver's thighs.
  3. The giver lifts the pelvis a little with their hands, without shifting the weight onto the neck.
  4. The receiver opens their legs and the giver leans towards the vulva.

✓ Tips
  • Get into it gradually: the receiver lies on their back and brings their knees to their chest, and the giver lifts their hips while they roll onto their shoulders.
  • Use a firm surface. A folded blanket under the receiver's shoulders, with the head on the bed, helps reduce pressure on the neck.
  • The receiver's weight should rest on their shoulders and the giver's hands, never on the head or neck: the giver holds the hips firmly the whole time.
  • Being upside down sends blood to the head: keep it short and come down slowly, rolling the hips back onto the bed.
  • Oral sex can pass on infections such as herpes, gonorrhoea or HPV: a latex barrier (dental dam) over the vulva reduces the risk.
  • Stop at once if the receiver feels neck pain or dizziness, or if the position becomes unstable.
Interaction type
Oral sex on the vulva (cunnilingus) in an inverted position
Active anatomy
Mouth, tongue and hands
Receptive anatomy
Vulva / Clitoris
Main stimulation
Oral sex on the vulva and clitoris (cunnilingus), in an inverted position
Setups and participants
Couple · 2 people Hetero

Frequently asked questions

Is it a position for beginners?

No. It needs flexibility in the hips and back, a strong partner to hold the pelvis, and trust. Try an easier oral position first.

Does the giving partner kneel or stand?

They kneel upright behind the receiver's hips, holding the pelvis against their chest. On a low bed, they can also stand on the floor if the height works.

How long can you hold it?

Only briefly: being upside down loads the neck and shoulders and sends blood to the head. Come down calmly and continue in a more comfortable position.

Are there health reasons to avoid it?

Avoid it with neck or back problems, high blood pressure, glaucoma or during pregnancy. If in doubt, choose a position lying on your back with a pillow under the hips.

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